[HBJen]

Hey All,

I have posted several times in the past about my heartbreak, received great advice, negative advice, and overall - got a lot out of the conversations I had with people in this forum. I didnt agree with the advice I received a lot of the times (I wasnt a big fan of NC, or the whole playing hard to get idea) - but the information I received here really helped me to make the best decisions for me.

On that note, I am happy to say that I have officially reconciled with the love of my life. When I thought it was a lost cause, but held on to the hope I had and the belief that my connection with him was stronger than this rollercoaster we were going on - and everything is better than ever.

I think the best advice I could ever give is - take the time to make the best decision for you - take in advice, and play the devils advocate. Trust your instincts and if you believe in something, then do what it takes to make things right.

Love is a unique thing - and I am extremely greatful for the love I get to share again - and I hope you all find the love that you need/long for.

xo
Jennie

[squeaky]

Aw, yay! I love hearing stuff like this

[HeavenOrHell]

Great news jennie!

[Sunshine30]

I am truly happy for you. I am curious about your stor. How long were you apart before reconciling? Any additional helpful advice for those who still are hoping that can work things out with there ex.

[name witheld]

yeah well done!

I'd also like to hear your story, especially as it seems to be a non-NC success.

Although I'm curious if there is perhaps different rules for guys/girls?
eg due to different laws of attraction?

[name witheld]

actually, i just browsed some of your posts.

looks like there was strong signals that it would work out and you had a gradual progression back together.

Though there is nothing to say it would have been any different in NC!!
I dunno, maybe if it hadn't worked out so well you would have tried NC?