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Old 3rd November 2009, 2:33 PM   #1
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Unhappy I love him but I am not attracted to him

I have a strange problem. I have a boyfriend I've been with for 3 years and he's very nice, I love him lots, he's my best friend and he's always there for me, and I'm here for him all the time too...

My problem is... I am not sexually attracted to him... He's just not the kind of "body" I crave, you know? I mean, I make love to him and it feels great, but it's not hot or sexy, it's just intimate... I have tried everything and we have talked about it a lot, but really I just don't like his phisique, and there's nothing about it he can change...

I'm not going to break up with him just because he isn't superhot, but what would be the right thing to do?
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