[drivesmecrazy3]

Theres a girl that i've always been craazy about for some reason. We used to always hangout, but not really anymore. Everytime I used to ask her to hangout, she would either say maybe, i'll see, or yes and then cancel last minute. This ALWAYS happened, there was not one time that she ever followed through on me making plans. The only time I ever saw her was when SHE made plans, and even then sometimes she cancelled. A few times she cancelled plans with me and didnt even do anything, just stayed home. Once she even cancelled on me last minute and ended up going with her friend to hangout with other guys! and hooked up with one!

We havent seen each other in months, and she knew I was going to be in the neighborhood, so she hit me up and asked if I wanted to meet her at a mall she was at. She had been telling me for awhile that would buy me a hat that i've been wanting. So I asked her if she was going to buy me the hat that she promised. She agreed and said yes, so i drove there to meet her. We met up, talked a little, walked around, and then came to a store where they had my hat. After trying it on and everything I walk over to her and shes like "im not buying that for you" and i was like wtf? and she really didnt. Then we walk around for 10 more minutes, while shes looking at jackets that she liked which were over 150 dollars, and then she says shes going to drive home and leaves.

Do you think this was messed up?

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So what exactly is attracting you to this girl? What's messed up is this girl is treating you like the puppy you are chasing her around. Even if she's just a friend, true friends don't treat other friends like that. Whatever her reasoning for doing what she did, doesn't matter as no one deserves that disrespect.

[Island Girl]

You need to walk away and move on.

We can tell you over and over again but you'll still be looking for a possibility that somehow someway it will happen for the two of you.

So you'll be done when you are done.
When you are finally threw not being appreciated, treated like a doormat, and realize you deserve more and she is never going to get that then you'll finally be done and look elsewhere.

Until then you're in for more of the same. So for you sake I hope it is soon.

Sorry because it is not what you are desperate to hear but it is the truth.