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girlfriend cheated
I started dating a girl about 6 years ago and she was recently seperated from her husband. She already had a son and a year and a half later we had a son. Soon after that we got engaged. About a week a ago we where fighting because she had lied to me about something small. I asked her why she always lies to me and told her she should come clean on all her lies. After waffling she did, She told me that she had lied to me about smoking, she also told me she had lied about how many people she had slept with, and then she dropped the bomb and told me she had cheated on me 3 years ago. Come to find out it was 23 months ago and she doesnt even know the guys name. She said when they had sex she started crying and they stopped. She has always been a compulsive liar and her telling the truth was a first. She says she would never do it again but she also cheated on her husband before me. She said she cheated because he showed her alot of attention. She has always had low self esteem and craved massive attention. I honestly believe it isnt healthy I dont think she believes thers any difference from what the girls on girls gone wild get and the attention a high ranking official would get and she would go to either extreme for attention. Not only that but she is bisexual and i have gave her permission to pursue women to fill her needs. She is the type of girl who told me I was the only guy she ever wanted to be with and if we broke up she would only be with women. Somehow I believed her. I still love her and we get along great and shes a great mom.
Everyone says we should stay together for the kids but I cant get her cheating on me out my mind. I dont think Ill ever trust her nor will I ever be able to give her all the attention that she craves. I can tell she is truly sorry. what should I do?
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