[CharlesDarwin]

Ok so I had been dating a girl for 6 years, we started to lose communication she noticed it and started talking about marriage as a way to hold on to me and i got spooked, as a coping mechanism i got on dating websites and started talking to girls. She saw their text messages and told me to stop. I told her it was only looking for friends.

Then one night she came home and told her friend how excited she was because a guy had hit on her at work that day.

I was upset and angry so I made a profile on a sex search website, which she found because i was so disgsted with myself after i had done it that i accidently left the thing up.

She left me the day she found that.

We reconnected about a week later, but she had already set things in motion that required her to move to iowa.

She moved and we talked on the phone for about 3 hours a night every night for 3 months. She told me how much she missed me, how lonely she was etc. then one day she basically out of the blue says that she needs to stop talking to me to decide what she wants. I say ok..2 days later she texts me that she is seeing a new guy.

We have stayed in contact about 1 day a week for about 1 hour a week. She told me this new guy is coming out of a divorce and an ex convict(signifigant because Im trying to get on the local PD so he is pretty differant from me). Shed been seeing him for 2 weeks and she told me he has become obsessed with her. that hes moving too fast, already told her he loves her and she was obviously uncomfortable with that. She also started asking about my relationships told her that I didnt have any, but that a girl had come into my work a few days before hand and had hit on me pretty hard asking for my number, but that i didnt give it out, my ex asked why i said well i told her I am still attached kind of, "kind of" the girl said, I replied that I had recently gotten out of a long term relationship and that my heart still belonged to another. my ex got quiet and said "you know sometimes i really hate you" in a soft tone of voice. I asked why she said "because..well i cant tell you why"

Its been 1 month since she started talking to him now and she told me last night that she "really likes him"

is this a rebound or should I try to move on?