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Old 29th October 2009, 5:06 PM   #1
mzLoveLy
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Question is he interested?

well, i sort of posted this in another post but i think i post it in the wrong place but i"ll re-do it here....
recently about 3 months ago i joined the gym and i signed up with a personal trainer...at first everything was formal.I would go in do the exercise and be out..not a lot of interaction...about a month now things have changed...we talk more ,we laugh a lot together, its a more friendly.Well, he lately has been interested in my likings and what i do during the week or the weekend. He also has suggested movies 4 me 2 c{not wit him but sumthing i should watch as a suggestion,has asked me what music i like , just a lot of "about me" questions..i thought nothing of it cuz i thought maybe he wants for us to be cool,get 2 know each other in a platonic way....Here's were the signals flare and i dont want to over feed into it..at almost each session he has had to comment on my butt and the exercise he's making me do and the outcome..which i thought,,maybe he's trying to encourage me?idk...#2 he notices random lil things about my clothing and comments on it, #3 he makes fun of me in a good way nothing mean #4 he mimics me a lot{ so freakin stupid lol} #5 he helps me out so much and he is kind and gentle # 6 even when i {most of teh time} dont do what im suppose to do he tries to be tough and strict but he just lets it slide{thankfully, let me not jinx it}#7 he would touch me randomly here and there nothing inappropriate just soft touches when he obviously didnt need to #8 he gets nervouse and he laughs toooo much like i even noticed he was laughing more than usual # 9 lately he has been working out after our session at the gym something he never did b4 since i have to stay and workout after our session #10 while i was doing push ups he was touching? or something on the back of my shirt and when i c he was pulling a strand of hair off...#11 randomly he told me about " i want to know what love is" by mariah carey and he was obviously emphasizing his liking to the song..i heard it and was like what?! thats where this curiosity sparked..#12he actually waited 4 me last session at the entrance and when i walked in he looked at me up and down{ idk if it has to do that i was wearing jeans but the look did occur} so idk if like i said am feeding too much into this or is he interested? i dont want to ask cuz wat if he isnt and is just being friendly cuz we are cool and compatible or its his job...idk ...idk..i wanna know though im afraid to ask i dont want us 2 be acquard for the rest of the sessions until mid 2010 lol....what should i do..i am a bit interested but i dont want this 2 be a one way street thing....plz i want as much views as possible female ,male,,,anyone

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