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It's true, most of you want to hear the BS side of the story and will support him/her but if WS writes their story and is seeking on some help as to what can they do, most of you all want to do is vent out your frustration and not listen to it or keep lecturing ''If you love him/her, then you wouldn't do it, you don't love them''.
If it's the WS's post, shouldn't you be more focusing on the person writing the story and put aside on pretending to be the BS on the story (you're not the BS anyways). That's when you get all emotional and worked up, you can't even write on a mature level. And do put aside your ''cheated on'' bad experience as an excuse to vent out on the member. What does the BS or WS writing the story has to do with what you went through, two different stories don't you think? Lastly if I was a WS seeking help and you vent out on me calling me names, talking about your cheating experience, my reply would be ''Does it look like I care, I only want to know what can I do, not your stupid story''...

It's a different case if it was a cheater bragging on how he/she likes doing it, states how they got no remorse nor feelings for it and is not even seeking advice, then ok call them all the names you want to. But if they asked for what can they do, why not listen to the story?