[bellabella]

Hi all

Been a while since i've been here, but here goes. Met a guy in May and we really hit it off. Since then we've been seeing each other a few times a week and most weekends pursuing a joint interest. Since the first day I met him we've barely gone a day without contact and I always look forward to hearing from him. He gave all the signals of being interested and eventually we hooked up.

Since then we've hooked up a few more times but he says he's not interested at the moment in more than friends, but yet continues to contact me all the time.

Two weeks ago I told him i wanted more or nothing and he told me not to pressure him. Then continued to carry on as he had been before with just as much contact (and seeing each other), but nothing physical. Should I take him at his word and give up all hope of anything more? Would someone really bother investing so much time in someone if they really had no interest, even if they knew that the other one liked them?

Never had this situation with someone before!

Thanks for reading.