[nin225]

Someone recently posted a similar thread about this. A woman said she was having problems with her boyfriend because her boyfriend refused to have any kind of sexual intimacy. He later admitted to her that he often had sexual fantasies about being a woman but was not gay or transgender, etc. He hated this about himself. I was too late to respond but it got me thinking.

I am 23 yrs. old and male. I do fantasize about some girls I see, but have two main fantasies. Rejecting women, and having sex as a women.

In the first fantasy I just turn down an advance, nothing harsh, not really a sexual fantasy. But I'm compelled to fantasize about being a girl and being a real slut. I am not a female version of myself but someone entirely different and I make up different guys and girls to have sex with.

I have never had a girlfriend. I am not gay. I have no real friends. I can be jealous of guys who I feel are better looking, though I am not ugly. I have paid for sex twice and the third time the call girl took pity on me for being so young and didn't charge me. Needless to say I have some insecurities.

The point is this. I feel the woman in the above mentioned story didn't really get any solid advice. I have a similar problem to her boyfriend that I didn't know other guys really had or shared. Opinions, or other strange fantasies?