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You know I live next door to you....SC...have not changed my stats..lol...
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"how do you gently break up with someone???..
Thats like saying how do I gently drive a monster truck through a china/glass/crystal shop.
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If this means anything : Alot of ppl develop * on line relationships * where they go ga ga over eachother and have never met. More often than not when they do meet its a * LETDOWN * I have had more letdowns than successes when it comes to online .
The best advice I can give for those who insist on the online life...Meet them and spend 6 months in real quality time getting to know them. Then you can find out if they are a serial Hoarder or psychotic killer....( or what have you )...lol...
Even in real life, without the internet dating you can get to know someone very well, and be with them for 2 1/2 years and think you know everything about them...BUT you will only know what they want you to know. I have recently found out his whole life (that he shared with me) was a HUGE lie. Not saying everyone is like that, just saying you just never really know. I am 36 and and again on the road to singlesville I will keep trying though, I may not be so trusting now, but I will try.
Keep looking Z and don't settle for anyone who makes you unsure of anything
Good Luck!
__________________ People place the most trust in the person who is most likely to deceive them, and unfortunately people are the most likely to deceive the person who loves and trusts them the most.
Even in real life, without the internet dating you can get to know someone very well, and be with them for 2 1/2 years and think you know everything about them...BUT you will only know what they want you to know. I have recently found out his whole life (that he shared with me) was a HUGE lie. Not saying everyone is like that, just saying you just never really know. I am 36 and and again on the road to singlesville I will keep trying though, I may not be so trusting now, but I will try.
Keep looking Z and don't settle for anyone who makes you unsure of anything
Good Luck!
That is very true. There are men who are serial killers that lead somewhat normal lives and not even there wives know they are killing women. So true.
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