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Old 4th November 2009, 7:25 PM   #181
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5'10" (178 cm)
You know I live next door to you....SC...have not changed my stats..lol...
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Old 4th November 2009, 10:23 PM   #182
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You know I live next door to you....SC...have not changed my stats..lol...
Oh my... a neighbor. Hello!
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Old 6th November 2009, 5:18 PM   #183
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Oh my... a neighbor. Hello!
I've only lived here a month or two...
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Old 6th November 2009, 9:59 PM   #184
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I've only lived here a month or two...
Then change it!
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Old 6th November 2009, 11:08 PM   #185
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Z How tall are you ?
Why does it matter? If he told you he was 5'6 would you automatically find him unattractive? because that is retarded.
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Old 7th November 2009, 12:56 AM   #186
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If this means anything : Alot of ppl develop * on line relationships * where they go ga ga over eachother and have never met. More often than not when they do meet its a * LETDOWN * I have had more letdowns than successes when it comes to online .

The best advice I can give for those who insist on the online life...Meet them and spend 6 months in real quality time getting to know them. Then you can find out if they are a serial Hoarder or psychotic killer....( or what have you )...lol...

Even in real life, without the internet dating you can get to know someone very well, and be with them for 2 1/2 years and think you know everything about them...BUT you will only know what they want you to know. I have recently found out his whole life (that he shared with me) was a HUGE lie. Not saying everyone is like that, just saying you just never really know. I am 36 and and again on the road to singlesville I will keep trying though, I may not be so trusting now, but I will try.

Keep looking Z and don't settle for anyone who makes you unsure of anything

Good Luck!
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Old 7th November 2009, 5:19 PM   #187
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I did try and change it , lol
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Old 7th November 2009, 5:20 PM   #188
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Why does it matter? If he told you he was 5'6 would you automatically find him unattractive? because that is retarded.
I can ask any man anything I want about him via online or in person.
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Old 7th November 2009, 5:22 PM   #189
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Even in real life, without the internet dating you can get to know someone very well, and be with them for 2 1/2 years and think you know everything about them...BUT you will only know what they want you to know. I have recently found out his whole life (that he shared with me) was a HUGE lie. Not saying everyone is like that, just saying you just never really know. I am 36 and and again on the road to singlesville I will keep trying though, I may not be so trusting now, but I will try.

Keep looking Z and don't settle for anyone who makes you unsure of anything

Good Luck!
That is very true. There are men who are serial killers that lead somewhat normal lives and not even there wives know they are killing women. So true.
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Old 8th November 2009, 2:52 AM   #190
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I can ask any man anything I want about him via online or in person.
Tell me, if he said he was 5'6, would you not find him very attractive anymore?
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Old 8th November 2009, 6:25 PM   #191
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Tell me, if he said he was 5'6, would you not find him very attractive anymore?
My husband was 5.6 , same height as me , so yes.
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Old 15th November 2009, 12:46 AM   #192
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