Right i think i need some more uplifting words girls. I made a massive mistake of leaving my mob at work..so got my old one out to use instead and it had all these old msgs on...well there about a month old. All about him telling me how things will get better for us, he loves me, wants me, im more exiting then any drug. I know your right though...i also know that im being a massive fool getting upset. Ive not txt him though...although as i write that i realise my phones at work anyway haha!! Grrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! help! lol
dont text him if they are that old, you will just feel worse ignoring them and rejecting them puts the power back in your hands! i was thinking earlier another thing my ex said when he wanted to not work things out was he just felt like nothing new was happening in our relationship whatever that ment..
Ok,that's good your phone is at work. That will help you rethink what you might do impulsively. I just accidentally clicked on the exes profile on the dating site where we met and it sends a notification to them...ugh! Oh well, it's done now but at least there was no contact made. I don't feel upset though.
Yeah..im the worst at just reacting and not thinking things through! So good thing i left it and i dont want to txt him. I determined to adapt without him!
its starting to bother me alittle again, i think he went away with those people who knows though... they all do drugs, do you think he is doing it with them rick or should i belive what he says when he says he just hangs out wiht them but he just doesnt do drugs with them... you think its a lie..i am stuck between thinking that he wanted to leave me and take a break from me to do drugs or that i just wasnt good enough... i cant figure it out
no reason to wonder... no reason to figure it out. you'll never figure out the truth - it's designed so you will (may) never know. you are still letting him drag you down with your constant need to know.
spend your energy on positive influences in your daily life. it's better that way.
i agree sunny im starting to think the same that ill never know why. i just hope it wasnt me but i think drugs must have some part in it. it makes me mad to think that he might be out havign sex with other people right now when im the one that wants him. can he actully do this and not think about me at all or feel bad about it. i dont understand, when i go out and talk to other guys i like them but i always think of him and wish it was him i was with. sunny why do u think he text me the other morning sayin he hoped all was well with me?
I know what you mean....when i talk to guys or anything im so aware there not my ex. It still bothers me how hes finding this all so easy...well i guess he is cause ive not heard a peep out him! The thought of him being with someone else is horrible...specially when hes got someone who loves him. Cause no other girl will put up with him lol...i know that!!
same thing from mine i barley hear a peep out of him. you think he would ever said i miss you, or somting like that nope, not at all... today i feel mad again and i dont know why.. im just angery that he could toss me aside like this i just dont know why he is doing this! did he really fall out of love with me is it the drugs. even when some of his family told him we should get back he said to me "there not the ones in a relationship with you, they dont know how u are" what does that mean its pretty mean.. i just will never be his freind cause he wants that, so long as i live i wont talk to him. what do u think about that? if he doesnt wanna be with me im not even gonna be his freind
Just like Sunny said stop trying to figure it out. Does it really matter why? Is he treating you like you deserve and want to be treated? It doesn't sound like it.
I dont think me and my ex will be friends. I cant do that...i have done with other ex's i have one of them is even one of my closests mates but this one is different. The only way i can get past and over him is to not speak, look and hear from him. As long as there nothing around me of his and i dont hear from him i can do ok. Friends though would just be too hard!!
I really miss him today and I have no idea...it's been 5 weeks tomorrow since we broke and coming up to three weeks no contact! Confused have you heard anymore from him?
its been five weeks of nc for me also, hes prob to busy away with those guys now than to bother contacting me, he prob out having sex and doing drugs with some one else
See I miss him but for making me feel like this I would never take him back...he makes me angry what I'm think I'm going through because he's so selfish. Is your ex still away?
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