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Old 28th September 2009, 5:58 PM   #1
willow887
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strong friendship turns strange

We have always been close and I am bisexual myself. I took him to his first gay club and noticed he was gay before he did. We kissed, and he said the room was spinning and he didn't know what to think etc. He puts his hand on my bum and says so everyone thinks you are mine. He stroke my arm and hugs me. I hug him and he says but I am not hard'.

He gets jealous when I have boyfriends. My latest is lovely and he asked my friend if we were in love?? He also told her he was sexually frustrated but he has had hook ups. He also makes out with her alot and puts his hand on her body.

However, the weird thing is he never compliments me at all. He told my friend she had beautfiul eyes but at the same never says anything about me.

A few weeks ago I said I was getting affectionate with my new boyfriend, and then all of a sudden he meets someone and 3 weeks later this guy is the best he has ever met! They have been fighting already.

I find this strange because he used the same words as me. 'I was getting affectionate towards him' he says!!!

He has had partners before for 10 years and this is the first he has truly liked someone??? and all this since I started seeing my new man?

I adore him but I am getting frustrated with his constant copying of me.
I know he is gay but then he asks me if it is true that women squirt when they have sex? he puts pic of girls on facebook with thongs? He tells people at work he has a new girlfriend when he was in fact hooking up with a guy.

Then says he doesn't understand gay men who have been married how they could have sex with women, yet he tells others he has been there??? He also got excited from just kissing me. We then see two girls with really short skirts and he says 'check them out'??

Would you be friends with someone like this? He has gone off the rails, one minute he isn't looking for sex, yet he tells my friend he is sexually frustrated. I was wearing long boots one night and he told my friend to wear them because he likes girls in long boots. He is truly shocking.

I am seriously considering whether I should continue seeing him??
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