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Old 23rd September 2009, 1:41 PM   #1
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And my wait begins!!!

The first portion of my K-1 packet has been delivered to the Vermont Service Center. So now there's nothing left to do but to wait and pray for a speedy process.

I hope everyone else here is having as wonderful a day as I am!


Now if only they'd cash that darn check.
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Old 23rd September 2009, 3:54 PM   #2
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That's so cool.... you're one step closer!

Congrats Rolleroasterr!
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Old 23rd September 2009, 5:32 PM   #3
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RC I am so very happy for you!

Did you check the time lines at USCIS for that service center? It should be much faster than CA or TX.

The first step is the biggest - everything is now in the works!

Congrats and glad you are having such a good day!
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Old 23rd September 2009, 5:40 PM   #4
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The timelines right now are somewhere between 2-3 months for NOA2, which isn't that bad. After that it's all up to Montreal to schedule his interview, but they've been kind of slow. Eitherway, it seems to be a whole lot faster than the California Service Center from filing to visa in hand.
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Old 23rd September 2009, 8:19 PM   #5
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The timelines right now are somewhere between 2-3 months for NOA2, which isn't that bad. After that it's all up to Montreal to schedule his interview, but they've been kind of slow. Eitherway, it seems to be a whole lot faster than the California Service Center from filing to visa in hand.
Absolutely faster!!

And you don't have to deal with those people on "island time" which means "things get done whenever they get done - don't stress or worry" even though the process is so friggin' long and no one takes it seriously so of course there's stress and worry!

Don't worry RC -- I am sure things will go smoothly. You do not have any issues to start out with and those centers are used to processing applications like yours. It is very routine.
Not to mention the US and Canada are BFFs anyway.
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Old 26th September 2009, 9:19 PM   #6
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Got our NOA1 and they cashed our check. All that's left is our NOA2, interview and approval(and all the little things in between). Can't wait for this to be complete.
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Old 28th October 2009, 8:43 AM   #7
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Just wanted to let y'all know that WE GOT OUR NOA2 this morning!!!

I got up at 7:15 to call the fiance and wake him up for work, and also saw that my precious little blackberry was holding a very important message for me. It came at 7am, and was dated for yesterday!

I'm so excited I can't go back to sleep
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Old 28th October 2009, 8:45 AM   #8
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Just wanted to let y'all know that WE GOT OUR NOA2 this morning!!!

I got up at 7:15 to call the fiance and wake him up for work, and also saw that my precious little blackberry was holding a very important message for me. It came at 7am, and was dated for yesterday!

I'm so excited I can't go back to sleep
I am thrilled for you RC!!!

Congratulations!! (I told you things would be easier with Canada and the US getting along so well)

YAY!!!
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Old 28th October 2009, 9:05 AM   #9
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I am thrilled for you RC!!!

Congratulations!! (I told you things would be easier with Canada and the US getting along so well)

YAY!!!
I'm so excited I seriously can't go back to sleep. I'm thinking about going to Virginia for a little bit to go to Tractor Supply. My silly dog refuses to sleep in his dog house even if it's cold and raining. I've put some of my clothes in there, tried feeding him in there, nothing. He hasn't been inside since he was a puppy which was 4 years ago, so I don't know what his problem is. But today I've got enough energy to figure it out!
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Old 28th October 2009, 9:50 AM   #10
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Congratulations RC!! What's this type of visa? I know absolutely nothing about American visas. I wish I could apply for my stuff now but have to wait till after we're already married.
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Old 28th October 2009, 9:53 AM   #11
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Congratulations RC!! What's this type of visa? I know absolutely nothing about American visas. I wish I could apply for my stuff now but have to wait till after we're already married.

It's the K-1, or Fiance(e) visa. Basically, we file our petition, they approve it, he has his medical exam, I provide support documents, and he goes for his interview. If all goes well, we get approved, and then he has 6 months to enter the US on this visa. Once he enters, we have 3 months to get married. Then we adjust his status. The process up until marriage could take 8-9 months, but I'm hoping it's more like 5 since VSC is moving so fast. We'll see!
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Old 28th October 2009, 12:41 PM   #12
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YAYYYYY so happy for you RC....Looks like the good feeling you had was for both of us.



You know this means you have been given a day pass to do spontaneous victory dances anytime, anyplace....
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Old 28th October 2009, 8:06 PM   #13
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Ok so more or less the same as the fiance and spousal visas for the UK. So after you get married, does he have to go back to Canada to apply for his spousal visa or can he just transfer it over from fiance to spousal while still residing in the US. With the fiance visa in the UK, you have to prove you'll be married within the 6 months and during it, you can't work. That's why we decided against it. It's best for me to stay here, work, and save money for the wedding. Then you just go to the local visa centre there and they stamp you for the spousal visa and that's it!
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Old 28th October 2009, 8:16 PM   #14
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Ok so more or less the same as the fiance and spousal visas for the UK. So after you get married, does he have to go back to Canada to apply for his spousal visa or can he just transfer it over from fiance to spousal while still residing in the US. With the fiance visa in the UK, you have to prove you'll be married within the 6 months and during it, you can't work. That's why we decided against it. It's best for me to stay here, work, and save money for the wedding. Then you just go to the local visa centre there and they stamp you for the spousal visa and that's it!
No, the fiance visa is to bring him here. Once he's here, he stays. As long as we get married within that 90 days, of course. If we wanted to, we could go ahead and get married, he'll return to canada and then we'll file the K-3 or the CR-1. Once he's here on his K-1 visa we have to apply for work authorization, but after that he can work. Overall we'll be dealing with them(immigration) for a lot of years to come.
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Old 28th October 2009, 10:00 PM   #15
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That is awesome news!!!!!! I know you have got to be over the moon to finally see progress

We will be doing the K-1 also, so I've been keeping an eye out for your posts.
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