Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
That is not even my business. What is my business is whether she has gained more than experience from her past partners, and if that is all she might impart upon me.
It depends. If her past vast sexual past could possibly impede my health in any way shape or form (STD) then yes I would have a problem with it. Me personally I wouldn't want to date a woman who has been around the block and back. That is just my personal opinion and the way I feel.
Don't care if they've had a lot or not, well it bothers me a little if they've constantly slept around, but because you can usually judge when a woman sleeps with you how they feel about you, if they've slept around alot you can't really tell, but not something that would ever damage any thoughts I would have towards them or us. So long as the history is history, it's fine.
The thing that would bother me is if they kept in contact with the guys she slept with, thats the most important question and I think a lot of people would agree with that one. Ends up putting an unwanted strain on it.
The sexual past of a person is NEVER someone else's business.
I never ask how many partners they had.. this is nosey... plain and simple..
Never someone elses business in your opinion only. Myself personally have no problems answering if someone asks, it is not nosey, its to find out information.
I've never asked the question yet have been asked, and I don't think it's nosey in the slightest.
When it has to do with STDs it is the other persons business. You lie, thats a shocker.
Yabutt.. when you know you're clean... why would it matter how much partners I had.. it's, again, none of the guy's business...
I don't ask personal question... what more can it bring to the relationship... if I like the guy, even if he had 100 partners... that doesn't mean nothing if he's clean..
Yabutt.. when you know you're clean... why would it matter how much partners I had.. it's, again, none of the guy's business...
I don't ask personal question... what more can it bring to the relationship... if I like the guy, even if he had 100 partners... that doesn't mean nothing if he's clean..
If he's a sex addict.. I'll know eventually...
Not everyone is honest or gets tested for STDs on a regular basis. I have a friend who met the "perfect girl". She said she was clean. Three weeks after the started dating my friend started walking around work scratching his crotch every ten mins. It was comical till I asked him what was wrong. Yup you got it, an STD. If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?
If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?
Are you serious????? Do you actually think that a girl who had over 300 partners (and is clean) will tell the guy she's interested in that she had as many partners..
If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?
Are you serious????? Do you actually think that a girl who had over 300 partners (and is clean) will tell the guy she's interested in that she had as many partners..
You do believe in fairy tales then...
Depends on the person Lizzy. I believe in honesty that is me and my personal opinion. I guess it differs from person to person. I respect your opinion though. I have had relationships where the woman brought it up not me. I am not shady and have nothing to hide.
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