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Old 24th June 2009, 6:48 AM   #1
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If a girl has had a lot of experience in sex with other men, is it alright with you?
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Old 24th June 2009, 7:49 AM   #2
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That is not even my business. What is my business is whether she has gained more than experience from her past partners, and if that is all she might impart upon me.

Why?
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Old 24th June 2009, 10:05 AM   #3
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It depends. If her past vast sexual past could possibly impede my health in any way shape or form (STD) then yes I would have a problem with it. Me personally I wouldn't want to date a woman who has been around the block and back. That is just my personal opinion and the way I feel.
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Old 24th June 2009, 10:07 AM   #4
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As long as she's clean, it doesn't bother me. The way I see it, with all her experience, she may teach me some new things!
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Old 27th June 2009, 11:50 PM   #5
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Don't care if they've had a lot or not, well it bothers me a little if they've constantly slept around, but because you can usually judge when a woman sleeps with you how they feel about you, if they've slept around alot you can't really tell, but not something that would ever damage any thoughts I would have towards them or us. So long as the history is history, it's fine.

The thing that would bother me is if they kept in contact with the guys she slept with, thats the most important question and I think a lot of people would agree with that one. Ends up putting an unwanted strain on it.
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Old 28th June 2009, 12:41 AM   #6
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and how exactly would the guy know????

Unless you tell him... there is no way he could know how many partners you had...

It's none of his business.. I never tell how many partners I've had.. and if he really wants a number.. I'd lie... simple as that..
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Old 28th June 2009, 12:49 AM   #7
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and how exactly would the guy know????

Unless you tell him... there is no way he could know how many partners you had...

It's none of his business.. I never tell how many partners I've had.. and if he really wants a number.. I'd lie... simple as that..
It comes up in conversation. I've never bothered about the question and have no problems telling if someone asks.

Why wouldn't it be their business either. How do you get close to someone if everything personal would be met with " none of your business" ;p.

You ever asked a guy if he watches porn before while in a relationship? same thing.
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Old 28th June 2009, 12:54 AM   #8
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It comes up in conversation. I've never bothered about the question and have no problems telling if someone asks.

Why wouldn't it be their business either. How do you get close to someone if everything personal would be met with " none of your business" ;p.

You ever asked a guy if he watches porn before while in a relationship? same thing.
The sexual past of a person is NEVER someone else's business.

I never ask how many partners they had.. this is nosey... plain and simple..
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Old 28th June 2009, 1:09 AM   #9
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The sexual past of a person is NEVER someone else's business.

I never ask how many partners they had.. this is nosey... plain and simple..
Never someone elses business in your opinion only. Myself personally have no problems answering if someone asks, it is not nosey, its to find out information.

I've never asked the question yet have been asked, and I don't think it's nosey in the slightest.
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Old 28th June 2009, 1:24 AM   #10
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When it has to do with STDs it is the other persons business. You lie, thats a shocker.
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Old 28th June 2009, 11:33 AM   #11
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When it has to do with STDs it is the other persons business. You lie, thats a shocker.

Yabutt.. when you know you're clean... why would it matter how much partners I had.. it's, again, none of the guy's business...

I don't ask personal question... what more can it bring to the relationship... if I like the guy, even if he had 100 partners... that doesn't mean nothing if he's clean..

If he's a sex addict.. I'll know eventually...
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Old 28th June 2009, 7:30 PM   #12
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Yabutt.. when you know you're clean... why would it matter how much partners I had.. it's, again, none of the guy's business...

I don't ask personal question... what more can it bring to the relationship... if I like the guy, even if he had 100 partners... that doesn't mean nothing if he's clean..

If he's a sex addict.. I'll know eventually...
Not everyone is honest or gets tested for STDs on a regular basis. I have a friend who met the "perfect girl". She said she was clean. Three weeks after the started dating my friend started walking around work scratching his crotch every ten mins. It was comical till I asked him what was wrong. Yup you got it, an STD. If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?
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Old 28th June 2009, 7:33 PM   #13
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Come on Runaway...

If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?

Are you serious????? Do you actually think that a girl who had over 300 partners (and is clean) will tell the guy she's interested in that she had as many partners..

You do believe in fairy tales then...
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Old 28th June 2009, 7:47 PM   #14
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Yes, it bothers me. If a woman has been with more men than I can count on two hands, then she's not the right woman for me.
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Old 28th June 2009, 8:09 PM   #15
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Come on Runaway...

If you dont ask personal questions in a relationship how can you get to know the other person ? What kind of relationships do you have?

Are you serious????? Do you actually think that a girl who had over 300 partners (and is clean) will tell the guy she's interested in that she had as many partners..

You do believe in fairy tales then...
Depends on the person Lizzy. I believe in honesty that is me and my personal opinion. I guess it differs from person to person. I respect your opinion though. I have had relationships where the woman brought it up not me. I am not shady and have nothing to hide.
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