Dont know whats happening.

OrangeMan · 11th January 2003, 3:52 PM

im 22 and split up with my girlfriend about 2 days which i have been going out with for the last 2 1/2 yrs.

i really dont understand whats wrong she says she still loves me and enjoys being with me and spending time together but she said shes not sure if we are right.

we were planning on getting a house together late this year and friends i have spoke to said maybe she is just unsure and moving in together is a big step.

when she first told me she wanted to split up she was persitant that was it, but she now says maybe she needs is a bit of time and space to decide what she wants. If she changing her mind or is this her way or not upsetting me.

we are still the best of friends and she still wants to speak to me a few times a day, i do too but it hurts sooo much when i do.

i dont know what to do as im holding on to that thought we might get back together as i know we are good together and both enjoy spending time together. But i dont wanna hold if there is never going to be a chance.

dont know what to do next as i soo want to be back with her but she keeps saying she has made the right choice. Do you think its a good idea to try and win her back? If so i need to do something special that she wouldnt expect and that would take her breath away.

thanks for any help.

mighty bop · 11th January 2003, 5:03 PM

I hate it when girls play games like that.

12th January 2003, 4:31 AM

Sometimes people need space and time to make out what they really want in life. Sometimes it isnt what we would like for it to be. If she is saying she is making the right choice to you about your relationship then I really think she is trying to let go and keep your friendship. JMO

16th January 2003, 11:27 PM

you sound way to sweet to be shafted in that way! i think you need to understand that women know if it feels right and if it does not then we tend to back off....which could be what she is doing>? if you wanted to win her back find out about what she really enjoys whether it be a nice warm bath or a hot tub in the middle of the woods and do that for her....let her know that you are genuine...that she is the one and maybe just maybe she will come to her senses! good luck!