i dun seem to fit in any identity...maybe you guys can aid me

facadegeniality · 2nd June 2009, 1:32 PM

I'm attracted to girls definitely.and i know im nt attracted to guys. but i do not mind giving a bj or be at the receiving end of anal sex.

so im nt gay, and im not bisexual (coz i have no attraction to man).

so am i jus sexual, sex crazed, weird?

pple who reply please do state ur sexual preference (if u r comfortable) as i want to see what difference that would make.

sunflower89 · 2nd June 2009, 4:08 PM

I'm bisexual.

Read this: http://www.glbtq.com/social-sciences...t_men_who.html

Can I ask how old you are?
It may be that you ARE bi but just have not found a guy you are attracted to.

facadegeniality · 2nd June 2009, 11:37 PM

thank you for your reply!

im 23...no....i nv like men...its jus the penis.

so im SMSM.

sunflower89 · 3rd June 2009, 3:12 AM

I wouldn't question it too much. Sexuality is a very fluid thing. You don't HAVE to fit into any identity. You are what you are, you don't need to put a label on it. As long as you are okay with how you feel, then just do what makes you happy and don't question it.

facadegeniality · 3rd June 2009, 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sunflower89

I wouldn't question it too much. Sexuality is a very fluid thing. You don't HAVE to fit into any identity. You are what you are, you don't need to put a label on it. As long as you are okay with how you feel, then just do what makes you happy and don't question it.

thanks for all your replies...i think i shldnt bother so much abt it or feel ashame of what i enjoy.

Mary3 · 3rd June 2009, 9:12 PM

I am bi curious and have MM fantasies all the time

PS : That does not mean married men, It means men/men...Never been with a woman either but curious....

Mary3 · 22nd June 2009, 1:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sunflower89

I'm bisexual.

Read this: http://www.glbtq.com/social-sciences...t_men_who.html

Can I ask how old you are?
It may be that you ARE bi but just have not found a guy you are attracted to.

That was a great article , thanks !

facadegeniality · 20th September 2009, 6:38 PM

i know its been weeks since i started this thread.

Every time after i have such thoughts, i feel v disgusted with myself. I wanna kill these thoughts because i know im attracted to only women. How do i make these thoughts go away?

i have a feeling its the low self esteem that is making me think that way..or i just may have that tendency and my low self esteem is the catalyst.

I have cut down my (str8) porn viewing to once a week. i think its a mark improvement already.