I realized over the past few months that i am a compulsive liar , and have gotten help and now I don't lie anymore...but I've lied to my partner, about my religion, sexual history....and I want to come clean and tell him, how do i do it? Should i actually do it?
The best thing you can do is talk to your partner, set the record straight, and start anew by being honest. A relationship based in lies will not last.
The problem you risk is that if you have an extensive sexual history, you may alienate your guy. If that's the case, I really don't think you owe him any details at all. But in all other things, be very honest.
Well, i told him last night, about the sexual past.
Told him how i was abusively used, not details, but it happened.
he was SO understanding, more then i thought so.
real love really does help in the worst of situations!
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