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Old 3rd April 2009, 1:25 AM   #1
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Aren't the sparks/residues always there?

Ok so basically if someone were to break up with their partner and it has nothing to do with cheating nor abuse then won't the little sparks of whatever is left out still be there.

It can be for example a terrible argument that went wrong or that it simple didn't work out. So I'm guessing that there would be still a little flame, something still left in what was once that love they had for each other.

Kinda the same as if you were to walk on mud and then go somewhere else. As the mud dries up, right there is your footprint you left marked. Same with that person you loved once, there is a footprint in it.

And well I'm assuming that if that little flame is lit up again then it can be rekindle and so that love/passion starts again right??
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Old 3rd April 2009, 1:35 AM   #2
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thats so true girl! my bf and i have been together for 2 years and we've broken up twice for a couple days but always ended getting back together just cause there was no cheating or lying or nasty reason for the breakup other then arguing a lot about little stupid ****. but we both always agree that we dont WANT to be without one another its not that we want to be with other people cause we dont so this has been the longest we've gone without breaking up after a fight just cause i know theres no one else i want to be with but him and vise versa....
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Old 3rd April 2009, 1:37 AM   #3
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Not necessarily. Sometimes you weather a relationship to the bitter end, until the spark just dies. It's happened to me before. I've just gone numb, with blank feelings for the person, never to have them come back again, no matter how much they tried to win me back. Sometimes it's just over and done in every sense. Other times, the spark can lie dormant forever. It really depends on the situation. Sometimes that "in love" feeling, and the caring you once had for the person really does just die.
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