[Lmaiden]

Me and my ex fiance broke up for 6 months and during that time we really didn't have to much to do with one another. He became simi involved with the Tramp (oops did I say that) that was the center of our break up and I found me a nice guy friend that shared a few intimate moments with me with no strings attached. Any ways the beginning of this month we decided to work on our broken relationship and do some things different! We were getting along so good in the first few days then BAM he found a condom wrapper in my bathroom trash can... I must say out of the 6 years that we were together I've never seen him act the way he did he was so upset with me but I broke him down by explaining that he was the reason why we broke up anyway and while he was over at his place playing house with the town whore I know you didn't think I was just sitting at home crying over him... After a while he got it... after I had to explain to him that none of it was intentional it was all about me my way of dealing with things. I dealt with the fact that he cheated and I dealt with that for a while but he is not dealing with my past relationship with this other guy. He is obsessed with it constantly asking me questions about any and everything, he has even become some what depressed about it the first few days he was sick and slept all day but now some days he just gloat around. I will say this he has become very affectionate and always tells me how much he love me and how much I mean to him and he also blames himself explaining if he didn't do what he did I would have never run into the arms of another man (TRUE) but I just want him to get over it. Why is he acting like this... We were not together when my relationship with this other guy took place why can't he just let it go. ADVISE please input something I just don't understand the mind of a MAN

[BikerBeagle]

He can't accept that you 'moved on' so fast?

In some breakups, it's whoever can hook up with the next person is the winner.