[apexi08]

I lied to my girlfriend and she is very unhappy with me. She is a strong advocate of staying sober and not drinking at all. I have not been exposed to this ever in my life, and I do drink occasionally, and much less ever since we have been together. Things were not always this way with her and we saw each other again after 4 years and fell in love. She lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about having contact with an her ex boyfriend. It really hurt me but I chose to forgive her. On a few occasions she asked me if I had been drinking and I lied and told her I hadn't. She is real upset and wont seem to forgive me now and I don't know what to. Drinking is something I am willing to get over and I would love to stay happy and do stuff with her that would keep us active and not require that. What do I do?

[norajane]

she lied about contacting her ex a few times = you forgave her
you lied about drinking a few times = she won't forgive you

She doesn't like any drinking and gets mad if you drink at all?

I'm sorry, but I don't think you can do anything unless you agree to be her doormat forever. Sounds like it's her way or the highway, no room for compromise, regardless of the issue.

[AAlike]

is she an addict or something along those lines?