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I once dated a guy who followed me all over my apartment whenever I got up to do something, get something out of the bedroom, whatever. But I drew the line when he followed me to the restroom. I think that might define needy fairly well.
Another kind of needy is what can be described as a 'crazy maker'. These are the people who will create drama when you're doing something simple - like sitting on the sofa, peacefully reading a book. They can't stand for your attention to be diverted elsewhere so they start doing some kind of 'dance' to get your attention. Again, needy.
Another sign of neediness - but is really more in the area of control - is a guy who constantly calls you in order to check up on you. And if you don't answer your phone immediately, they become paranoid and upset. Needy and controlling.
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