Here's my story that happened this week, its somewhat bizarre. I was drinking with my mate of 20 years(we're both guys). I have only been as drunk on one previous occasion. I was so smashed that I cannot remember anything at all after 9pm or so. And I mean smashed as in not in control of myself. I was so hammered and acting like an idiot apparently that he decided to put me to bed (in the early hours of the morning). His wife was in drinking with us too. Now, it seems that he says I was coming on to him in some way or suggesting that we get it on when he tried to put me to bed. Needless to say I don't remember any of this. What I will say is that we have been known to wind each other up about the old 'gimme some man love' etc on occasion but its just been a wind up.
So, him and the wife sat me down the next day and gave me the old 'You know you can tell us anything speel.' Now, I have a girlfriend, we have a great sex life. I've had several GF's over the years. I'm certain that I'm not gay/bi in any way unless it just happened out of the blue the other night when I was pi**ed. However, despite them saying that they had never even had the slightest thought/sign that I might be gay they now think I'm hiding something because of this incident. He was really freaked out by it.
Here is my problem, they are generally very reliable friends. However, I'm concerned that they will now tell people that I may be gay when I am not. Or do I have some deep rooted curiosity that even I did not know about it? I went to see them the next day and they seemed far from convinced when I told him that I am not attracted to him (or any other man) in any way. Now, because I cannot recollect any of this I am even 2nd guessing myself. Another problem is this.. I dont wanna try and get it on with my GF just now as I'm so worried with all of this on my mind that I cant think of anything other than her finding out. My nerves are shot.
I would appreciate any/all thoughts on this situation as I feel really stressed out by it at the moment. Please chip in guys. Thanks for reading.
MG.
P.S. I know it is really irresponsible to get so drunk but its done now.
I am very straight, have never even kissed a woman, but I do enjoy lesbian porn. It's a hot fantasy that I enjoy ONLY when watching it. Does that make me gay? Nope.
I think perhaps when you were trashed you were SO drunk that you tapped into some hidden fantasy land, and let's be honest - a LOT of straight guys have gay fantasies.
If you honestly have never had a gay inclination or conscious desire to act on it, then I don't think you need to worry about actually being gay.
As far as your friends, I guess they are now enjoying teasing you about what happened. Play along, and say, "yeah! I guess only when I'm drunk, Im gay!". If you keep protesting, they will think you're being defensive. So, play along with it, and it will eventually be forgotten.
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That's a pretty funny trick they played on you. I wish I had a friend who would get stinking drunk like that. The next day I could sit him down and say, "so I'm not going to judge you. I'm your friend. I just want you to know you can tell me anything." And then just leave it there and him wondering what the hell he got up to. That would be funny. Maybe I'd even go so far as to keep my pets away from him or something.
You said so yourself that you were absolutely trashed and wasted, and had no memory of what occurred last night. Now, we all know what happens when alcohol is consumed, you're less inhibited. Especially when you're deeply intoxicated, you, yourself are not liable for your actions. Example: A devoted married man had a one night romp in the sash with a female. Yes, he's guilty of cheating, but it might not have been intentional. So does that say that he's a cheater for life? Because subconsciously he had always been thinking of cheating? Maybe, maybe not. Okay I have no idea where I am going with this, but I think you get the point. Being drunk makes you act a certain way, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you're gay. It could mean alot of things.
I think you might have had a black out. Where you drank so much you were conscious but have no memory. If you were coming on to him , they say alcohol relieves inhibitions . To be sure , ask a professional if you think it means you have deep seated bi sexual tendancies. How are your 2 friends treating you now ? Uncomfortable ? I wouldnt get trashed around the guy friend ever again.
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"how do you gently break up with someone???..
Thats like saying how do I gently drive a monster truck through a china/glass/crystal shop.
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I think perhaps when you were trashed you were SO drunk that you tapped into some hidden fantasy land, and let's be honest - a LOT of straight guys have gay fantasies.
Here is something you might not know, a lot of men are thinking about gay sex when they orgasm during sex with a woman, but no one will openly admit it.
Here is something you might not know, a lot of men are thinking about gay sex when they orgasm during sex with a woman, but no one will openly admit it.
Here is something you might not know, a lot of men are thinking about gay sex when they orgasm during sex with a woman, but no one will openly admit it.
To the original poster, the chances you tried it on are relatively slim, but not entirely unfounded, I say forget about it, the chances are they are playing a practical joke on you. Next time, don't get so drunk.
To the original poster, the chances you tried it on are relatively slim, but not entirely unfounded, I say forget about it, the chances are they are playing a practical joke on you. Next time, don't get so drunk.
I don't know about all women...I stand alone maybe in my kinky's....lol....But I like what you have to post sir
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