My bf dumped me for another girl he just met. Has anyone ever dumped or been dumped for someone else and then they try to come back after they split from the other person? If so, how long did they last with the other person?
My bf dumped me for another girl he just met. Has anyone ever dumped or been dumped for someone else and then they try to come back after they split from the other person? If so, how long did they last with the other person?
Oh yeah, I was traded in for another model. It's been two years, last month she tried calling me twice, I promptly disregarded her call.
Screw her and the boat she sailed in on, I'm done with losers like that.
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I was dumped for someone else, but as far as I know he's still with her (3 months later).
You should definitely think long and hard about why you would wait around for someone who could so casually leave you. Don't you want someone who is so crazy about you that they would never dream of kicking you to the curb when some new piece of ass came along?
Don't you want someone who is so crazy about you that they would never dream of kicking you to the curb when some new piece of ass came along?
Hahaha! Good call Sunshine! Its true, if the relationship is so easily dismissable to your ex that he could just up and leave for someone else, then why in the world would you even want to think of getting back together with them?!
I know this must hurt a lot. This is like the ultimate rejection. But just remember, he's an A$$ and unfortunately you just happened to fall for him. Take solace in the fact that if he did it to you, he will probably to it to her and the next girl and the next girl... You dont want it to be you the second or third time around do you?
Keep your head up, go out with your girls, rent revenge movies, and remember that you are fabulous, and one day you'll find someone who would never do something like that to a catch like you!
xoxo
__________________ I want so badly to believe that there is truth that love is real. And I want life in every word, to the extent that its absurd...
Just relax and take some time to yourself, keep busy and make some new friends. Live for yourself, being single can be fun and when the right person comes along you will know. They will never treat you how he has treated you. Good luck on finding the right guy, keep smiling
My last ex, dated for 3 1/2 - 4 months, was a fast paced romance on the brink of being engaged, he left me, then came back six months later and that last for about a month.
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Albert Camus once wrote, "Blessed are the hearts that can bend. They shall never be broken." But I wonder.... If there's no breaking, then there's no healing. And if there's no healing, then there is no learning. And if there's no learning, then there's no struggle. But the struggle is a part of life, So must all hearts be broken?
Yeah my ex left me to be with another guy. Hurt like hell, not just the fact she left, but the feeling of worthlessness. Like, what's wrong with me, that she can so easily dispose of me?
But it's not that, it says more about her than it does about me. I can see now, in my situation, that this girl has done this before to guys and will do it again. It has to do with self-esteem, her need to be wanted and know she is desirable, coupled with her fear of any kind of long term relationship.
The other thing is some people (my ex included) are obsessed with that intial three month honeymoon period we all go thru, where everything is great, your brain is flooded with happy chemicals and there's no need to worry about commitments to the other person. Once that hump is over and the relationship gets a bit tougher people like her will hit the road, sooner or later.
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