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Old 11th July 2008, 4:04 PM   #1
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She has an abusive past...

I have been seeing someone for a couple of months and it's been pretty good. We have argued some and two times already she has pushed me out of her way. The first time it happened I told her never to lay a hand on me again and it happened again but I let it go b/c I was standing in her way the first time. She is easily insulted and admitted to giving an ex a black eye on two diff't occasions. Some friends have told me that she's beaten all of her ex's and I didn't want to end it based on rumors and if she hadn't ever pushed me I wouldn't have thought anything of it. Did I give her a fair chance or should I have not broken up with her based on her past? I'm fairly small in build and she is not so I was quite intimidated. Your opinions? My friends and therapist said to run like hell btw...
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Old 11th July 2008, 5:32 PM   #2
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Yep, run like hell.
You did the right thing in leaving.
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