[sunshine24]

or craziness, or something of the sort.

So my boyfriend lost his phone a few weeks ago. But right before that his son's mother was calling him constantly. Leaving mean very nasty messages on his voicemail. So I promptly called her and told her that it was I that pay the phone bill on a monthly basis and that the phone she is leaving nasty disrespectful messages on belonged to me and that I bought it for my boyfriend to use. The phone is in my name and I do pay the bill on it. About 130 a month. The messages that she leaves always involve me. She always says things that are extremely hurtful to my character. At first I ignored these things. I never went in his phone. I never callled her. I never did any of these things. But then he started telling me some of the things she was saying. So I became curious. I mean, I had seen things that she had said before because at one point she was texting him. Calling me rediculous names, making false claims. All kinds of things. So one day sprint called me explaining that they were noticeing too many times that our voicemail was attempted to being accessed by an outside line. So naturally I went in to change the pass codes and listened to some of the voice messages. THIS FUELED MY ANGER. This girl has threatened my life, called my cell phone and yet and even still she wanted to say all these rediculous things. So I called her, told her if she did it one more time I was goind to call the cops for harrassment. So then my boyfriend seems all depressed or whatever. He says I took things too far, that I shouldnt care about what others think. BUT to me its disrespectful. I mean how am I supposed to let someone disrespect me on minutes that I pay for?

So then he lost his phone.........and recently i bought him another one connected to the same line. Now she is texting him again and having other people call the phone and leaving crazy text messages? I am trying not to let it bother me, but it does. What should I do?

[whichwayisup]

his son's mother

All of you have to remember there is a child involved here. Maybe you, your boyfriend and the mother of his child should ALL get together and sort this out. She obviously feels threatened by your relationship, maybe she's jealous and hurt still or possibly is having alot of trouble accepting that you will be around her son. Either way, this woman WILL be in your lives forever because of their child together.

Are they divorced? Or was she a girlfriend and then they broke up? Were you part of the picture during their relationship or were they over before you two met?

[sunshine24]

he claims he was never with her, they were just having sex and she wanted more then that from him. he claims that he wanted to be with me but i wasnt having it so he used her until he could get to me.

[couchmonkey]

Originally Posted by sunshine24

This girl has threatened my life, called my cell phone and yet and even still she wanted to say all these rediculous things. So I called her, told her if she did it one more time I was goind to call the cops for harrassment.

Now she is texting him again and having other people call the phone and leaving crazy text messages? I am trying not to let it bother me, but it does. What should I do?

Make good on your promise. If there is a kid involved she should be more careful with how she conducts herself. Notify the police. Press charges. if she continues, inform her that social services are next.