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Old 20th June 2008, 12:24 PM   #1
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Exclamation Guys, Men: do you have hang offs?

Do guys really have "Hang offs"?

It's where you and the other blokes see who has the largest donger.



* i ask this because my husband said that he and his friends did this (a long time ago)*
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Old 20th June 2008, 5:06 PM   #2
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No...

Other than seeing a few guys naked in the locker room when I was a child going to gym class I have never seen another man naked or compared my pecker to another man's..

To me.. It would be gay for me to whip it out.. stroke it to full erection and show it to another man...

I think your husband was just experimenting around and screwing around with the guys when he did it..
I could see some guys doing it.. but not me..

Mr Wiggles is only for the ladies.. and now only for my wife...
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Old 20th June 2008, 5:46 PM   #3
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Do guys really have "Hang offs"?

It's where you and the other blokes see who has the largest donger.



* i ask this because my husband said that he and his friends did this (a long time ago)*
I think maybe your husband and his friends are homos.
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Old 20th June 2008, 6:14 PM   #4
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Uhhh, no.

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I think maybe your husband and his friends are homos.
This is what I was thinking.
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Old 20th June 2008, 6:33 PM   #5
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??? No.

Never heard of that. That gets me thinking, I wonder if women do that with their boobs?
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Old 20th June 2008, 6:51 PM   #6
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Uh... sounds kinda gay to me...
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Old 20th June 2008, 8:12 PM   #7
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OP, I know I questioned this elsewhere, but here I can put into context. When you and the girls get together, do you ever stroke your clitorises and compare to see whose is "bigger"? Essentially, that's what you're asking of the men.

Hang-off's in the purest form. say nothing, as a man's flaccid state is no indicator, or at best a minimal one, of his erect state.

But good on your hubby for being adventurous
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Old 20th June 2008, 8:18 PM   #8
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I have some info on this practice, but alas! my gender disqualifies me!
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Old 20th June 2008, 8:57 PM   #9
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I have some info on this practice, but alas! my gender disqualifies me!
awww, man!
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Old 20th June 2008, 9:34 PM   #10
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I have some info on this practice, but alas! my gender disqualifies me!
Don't let that stop you.

I yield the floor to this fine woman who will enlighten us about those strange gatherings none of us men here has ever witnessed.
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Old 20th June 2008, 10:37 PM   #11
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Don't let that stop you.

I yield the floor to this fine woman who will enlighten us about those strange gatherings none of us men here has ever witnessed.
Aww shucks.
But since you asked, I have had three guy friends on three separate occasions "confess" a comparison moment with at least one other guy. And of course they all three claimed to come out the biggest of the guy(s).
The other thing these three guys had in common is that very shortly after telling me about this, they let me know they were interested in me.
The last of the three guys is my BF's ex roomate. I met my BF through this friend, but we were friends for over a year before I started dating my BF. When he told me his comparing story he said it was with his roomate (who is now my BF).
It just popped into my head one day and I asked my BF about it. He was pretty stunned and didn't know what to say - had no idea what I was talking about!
My conclusion was that guys tell these stories to bring up the subject of their "member" and boast. Cheap advertising.
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Old 21st June 2008, 7:46 AM   #12
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ho hum it's just a question but sally4sara that sure does make some sense and no my husband is not gay- men are different when they are under 21 thats all.
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Old 21st June 2008, 10:23 AM   #13
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ho hum it's just a question but sally4sara that sure does make some sense and no my husband is not gay- men are different when they are under 21 thats all.
In another thread you said it was guys 25 and under.. now you are changing to children under 21..

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i think it's the "new generation" that is doing this -- people 25 around and under... well my husband told me he did this (he's not gay haha). it's just a guy thing.. i hope. god i have to make a thread now .
Maybe your husband did it with some friends.. experimenting with something.. but most men do not do this...
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Old 21st June 2008, 10:29 AM   #14
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Sounds like your husband is bi-curious. I don't know of too many men who show their members off to eachother. Makes me think if there was a circle jerk that happened as well - Maybe you should ask him?
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Old 21st June 2008, 10:36 AM   #15
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In another thread you said it was guys 25 and under.. now you are changing to children under 21..
25 is under 21 lol sorry forgot which 20's i was talking about i'll change it for no further confusion
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