[saraispiel19]

Well me and my spouse have been together for about 3 years we have a daughter (who was planned) who is 1. He works a lot and gets really stressed. Last week i installed a spyware on my PC to my shock i found memberships to discreetsex.com and other casual sex date pages and what not- he had various profiles and email accounts i did not know of- and this is comming from a man who would always accuse me of cheating on him (which i never did). So i left the house with child and all and told him to get out in a note. Today I am back home and hes told me that he did not follow through with the dates or whatever and has not cheated on me- like having sex with anyone else, kissing or meeting up with the dates (i really doubt it) but he is willing to take a lie detector test, go through counciling, etc. My husband really wants me back and it seems to be genuine because the past few days he has been acting a lot more affectionate, caring, a lot less angry and frustraded but i don't buy it i still remember all those emails and pictures...

Well i don't know what to do- he made himself out to be so honest with me and i believed him. Has anyone else gone through this?

oh jeeze. help me please.