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Old 18th June 2008, 1:35 AM   #1
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Girl at School & upcoming dance

- She Touches me alot
- She sits next to me in the class we have together and we usually sit close to each other with legs touching
- She laughs alot at my jokes even when there not funny
- Eye contact
- The other day we were talking about one of (her many) guy friends and after she said "just so you know i dont like him if you were wondering, i'm just being nosy"

I do have another class with her but she hardly talks to me but hangs with her guy friends...

Theres a school dance (ball) coming up and i want to ask her. Whats the best way to ask? And do you think she likes me?


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Old 19th June 2008, 9:22 AM   #2
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Paying full attention to you in one class and then completely ignoring you in another is just odd. The possibility with the other guys is that there's some beef between them and you, and if she shows support for both sides, she'll catch flak for it. From what info I have, my guess is that she likes you. The only way to find out for sure is to roll the dice and ask her to the dance.

As to how to ask her, I'd catch her after school or during lunch when she's not surrounded by people or in a hurry to get somewhere. That way she's not hurried to give an answer (as hurrying an answer usually results in a negative response) and she's not immediately influenced by any outside pressure.
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Old 19th June 2008, 11:54 PM   #3
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Actually im quite good friends with her friends

But thnx for reply
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Old 20th June 2008, 8:28 AM   #4
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In that case, I can't explain her ignoring you in the 2nd class. But the rest still stands.
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Old 24th June 2008, 5:45 PM   #5
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Sounds like this is in the bag. Just ask her like what you're talking about isn't anything special. You might want to do it during a social time though. Maybe not in class.

"Oh hey the dance is coming up and I was wondering if you would like to go with me".

It's really quite simple. Especially since you hang out with this girl a lot.
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Old 1st July 2008, 2:18 AM   #6
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Turns out the bitch was just playing with my mind I asked her out She said "im so sorry ______ , but i like this boy overseas in america (that were she came from). Now im ignoring her
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Old 1st July 2008, 6:43 AM   #7
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Turns out the bitch was just playing with my mind I asked her out She said "im so sorry ______ , but i like this boy overseas in america (that were she came from). Now im ignoring her
Wow what a bitch. Yeah forget her.
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Old 1st July 2008, 6:54 AM   #8
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Damn man why do girls play with guys like that? Then again, I blame guys for messing around with girls the same way. A freakin' cycle that never ends.
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Old 1st July 2008, 6:56 AM   #9
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Damn man why do girls play with guys like that? Then again, I blame guys for messing around with girls the same way. A freakin' cycle that never ends.
Sounds like he was set up to be a platonic friend. Have to be careful with those kind of girls.

Oh and Gfunk, please ignore her and don't speak to her at all.
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