[KunFuZed]

So I've been talking to this guy for about 2 months and I will admit in the first month I was trying to rush it because I like him so much I want him to be all mines already. So he let me know how he felt and I loosened up a bit. I rearly ever call or text him, he's the one calling or texting me everyday, since the day we met. Sometime's I'll say things like I miss you or I can't wait to see. This guy is a military man and were pretty much doing a long distance thing. So that's why I say things like that. But recently when we talk I feel like he's starting to be annoyed with me. He admitted to me that he feels like I'm still trying to rush things but I don't understand how. What am I doing wrong why does he feel like I'm still trying to rush him when I feel like I'm trying my hardest not to rushing him? Does any one have any suggestions on how I can slow down? I really like this guy a lot and I don't want to lose him just yet. PLEASE HELP

[LucreziaBorgia]

You could try slowing down, but if you backed off like you said then you aren't the one who needs to change: he is - he still thinks you are moving too fast and until he changes his mind about it, there is little you can do outside of just not calling or texting him at all and letting him do 100% of the contact. Even then, that might not change his mind.

It sounds like he is going out of his way to keep things casual. I would hazard a guess that you aren't the only person he is seeing.