ok i have been broken up with my ex for about 3 months now and we still talk. I told her i didnt want us to not at least be friend because she has been a huge part of my life for the past 6years. BTW im am only 23. So i broke up with her but she wont get back with me for what ever reasons you can read my other theads if you really want to know why. Anyways so we both call each other but she still wont give us a chance, i can even get a date. But i have a roomate that is her friend and twice now she has said that she is comming to see my roomate and hang out but both times she doenst even call my roomate to tell her she is comming. Then she hangs out with me and we for the most part have a good time, talking our dog for a walk, getting something to eat and just hanging out at the park. SHe had this other guy in her life she was ****ing that was 30 but now after i told her numerous times that he was a bad guy she realises that because someone at her work that is her kinda friend told her that the dude is a lamer. So she calls me a 2am to tell me( i didnt pick up because i was asleep) ty for being real with me. Only reason i know this is because the next day i asked her but somehow i doubt that was all she had to say. everytime we talk, we talk for about an hour on the phone enjoying each others convo. Im just wondering if any girl has treated a guy like this and what happened to you guys? did you eventually get back togeather? I am not sure i even want to be with this girl becuase she got with this dude and im not fond of girls giving it up so easily especially when we had something special and she gave it up for a looser. So im just courious if anyone has had similar expierences. Also if you have any good advice for me id appreciate it.
hmmm. this is a tough one. my ex broke it off with me and I found out she started dating some guy 1 week later. She gave me a bunch of tears and bs about not wanting to date anyone else. She was hurt I guess and that was her way of feeling validated. She always needs someone in her life.
Your situation is a little different. You broke up with her so what right do you have to judge her and what she did? You lost the right when you dumped her. If she dumped you and then started with this other dude I would think differently but you let her go and now you're regretting it. I don't think it's fair what you're doing to her.
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You know, I'm sick of following my dreams, man. I'm just going to ask where they're going and hook up with 'em later.
thanks for the relpys guys. and i donoo if im not being fair but i kinda see what your saying. Yes i do regret dumping her but honestly how many people dont get upset and say things they dont mean? i was upset with her because she wanted to argure about things that were nothing big and i figured out why a little while ago she always blew things outa porpotion and its because she never forgave me for cheating on her. She would have never found out but i told her and 3 years later i find out that she never forgave me. So if you think im not being fair how fair was that :[ how were we ever supposed to grow when someone doesnt tell you stuff like that. anyways thanks for the replys again hopefully this NC will work i havent talked to her for a week but she is all over AIM and myspace which is funny because she never use to use those untill we broke up. I think its kinda her way for keeping track of me because when i added this one friend of mine who she hates later that day she calls me like OMG your friends with him...... lol. Also when she learned that she said that we couldnt be a couple if i was his friend. But if she never wanted to be with me why would she even say that? sucks for me becuase this kinda stuff drives me nuts.
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