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Old 6th May 2008, 1:07 AM   #1
cxz214
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where should i start?

Alright I've known this girl for about a year now. We used to work together at a local movie theater. I never really felt anything for her, we were just co workers. Then my friend started going out with her and I started to have a thing for her. This probably should be a clue but, oh well see what other ppl think. So I started talking to her, spending more time with her and such. Not sure if I was pushing too hard or what but I guess she knew I had an interest in her and at some point she sent me a text saying that she wanted to do something sexually so, I thought she was just playing around and I just played along. Then later she said,"that she didn't like me that way and only wanted to stay friends." So I was confused and said something along the lines of ok (yeah was pretty smart).

Anyway time passes and they break up in less than a month. I then get another job and am working both places so, don't get to see her as much. Well later on we start hanging out with each other just her and I. I start to get the feeling that this could be going somewhere but, I wasn't sure after what she had said before. Well not long after that I am laid off from both jobs (yeah laid off from movies don't know how that is but thats what they told me). So through this time I didn't have much contact with her. So I was out of a job for 3 months.

Now I have found a new job and I've called her to see whats up and such. I have the best luck of calling her when she is at work and then I'm working when she calls me back, so guess I need to find a better to call her lol. Her birthday came up and I made sure to say something to her, so she asked me if I would go hang with her after we got off work that day. So she brought along one of our mutal friends and we went for coffee, I thought of this as a good way of catching up on everything that I missed, but she didn't really talk to me. She would pretty much talk to my friend about stuff I had no clue about and it was all very awkward. So not sure if once I catch up on everything it would be any different, I had no chance, or I just waited to long and she got bored with me.
Thats my story hope you liked it lol and let me know what you think.

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