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Old 5th May 2008, 4:51 PM   #1
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Mission: Be more sociable and outgoing!

So..

Social cowards, introverts and shy people, enough of the whining and complaining!

From this day on, you and I will look to this thread when we need motivation to get out there and meet people!

Lets make this a thread where we can set up goals and steps to becoming more sociable and outgoing persons. Doesn't matter if it starts out slow, it will still beat doing nothing. And who cares about posting your failures here if that happens, this is the internet! Believe me, i'm going to crash and burn as much as you. No more of this hyper-sensitivity to rejection and failure. We'll set up challenges and get feedback from others, and dish out some asskicking if its needed.

Ok, i will go first:

Each day the next week (and more if needed) i will:

Approach and talk to 10 strange girls, even if just asking for the time or directions, BUT i will stay and talk as long as possible! I bet there's going to be some WEIRD moments, but thats the point.

Call my friends daily AND accept ALL offers of doing something social

Go to a bar/nightclub by myself and stay for at least ½ hour (got to start out slow), and talk to as many people as possible.

I hope some of you will join me!

Please feel free to add missions even if youre sociable!

I will report back with my chrash and burn or successes..
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Old 5th May 2008, 5:39 PM   #2
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I'm going to go to a bar or nightclub tonight and stay as long as it takes!
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Old 5th May 2008, 6:04 PM   #3
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I'm going to go to a bar or nightclub tonight and stay as long as it takes!
Haha.. sounds good to me, but i doubt this is realistic for everybody..

And i wasnt talking about going to a club with friends, but going ALONE and NOT feeling weird about it, so maybe you can give some advice?
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Old 5th May 2008, 7:58 PM   #4
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I hope some of you will join me!
Even though I am not going to join you, I hope you will be successful. Good luck.
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Old 6th May 2008, 6:34 PM   #5
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Yeah I did it, I went out and had a great time. I even played the hero and carried a girl back to her care because she had hurt her foot
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