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Old 1st May 2008, 8:21 PM   #1
Jiraiya
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whats wrong with me?

I have freinds but i dont really consider them freinds i dont know why.
Im kind of a loner
I hate my life and i hate who i am
i have no self esteem and i seem to have no talent in anything.
Whats wrong with me?
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Old 6th May 2008, 5:38 PM   #2
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Let me know if you need someone to talk to.
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Old 6th May 2008, 5:50 PM   #3
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first of all there is no such thing as talent. That is actualy dedication to something and take a lot of hard work which is what people associate talent with. You juist need to find something your interested in. for me its guitar and gym.

Maybe getting a gym membership if you dont already have one. I read about a study saying that if you work out five or more hours a week then your self esteem will go way up. which i found is true.

anyways i probably didnt help but its a suggestion.
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Old 6th May 2008, 7:29 PM   #4
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Jiraiya, I have some questions for you.

#1 may I know your age?

#2 Would you consider talking with a proffesional?therapist? Are you already?

First thing first, you NEED to go back in time to find the root of why you have these negative thoughts about yourself. A proffesional therapist CAN help you do that if you are 100% honest and open to them. I REALLY suggest you consider a therapist.. everyone needs someone to talk to and they will listen.

For now can you describe to the best of your ability of why you think like this about yourself? Search deep, and don't be afraid of saying embarrassing things...be open and true, and maybe just, maybe, we can get you going on the right track.

I strongly suggest a therapist, don't waste another minute..

Stay in touch.
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Old Yesterday, 12:46 AM   #5
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You’re depressed and being really hard on yourself. Come on you can do it, you’re one of the legendary Sanin after all.
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