I just do not get it! I go to church and chat with everyone there, when I go to the park with my kids I chat with moms BUT that is yet! Nothing else. Am I just not good at making friends or to to out spoken?

I have NP in making friends with guys, that seems to come VERY easy to me for some reason. But with women, I have NO idea what I am doing wrong!
I have 3 kids and I love them with all of my heart and my DH BUT I do not have any friends that I can met for lunch, go shopping with, talk on the phone, invite for dinner etc. I miss not having a GF in my life to share things with. My BEST friend lives in Nebraska and although we chat everyday,email each other, it is not the same. Sometimes I just do not know what is sooo wrong with me? And as I type this I just feel like crying,I am so easy to talk to and get along with. My kids are Super well behaved, my DH is very nice.
I am a member of 2 mom sites in my area and still no friends. Seems they all stick together and do not like newbies

I just do not get it!