[crazyk84]

i will try and keep this as short as possible!
i think(im guessing!) this whole issue started when i started seeing my best friends fiances brother, he had not long come out of a marriage which had been rocky for a while(this was not an affair) anyway my best friend didnt have an issue and infact had encouraged us to be 'naughty' (which i declined) before he had left his wife... anyway six months down the line completly out of the blue she and another close friend of mine decided to tell me that my bf was a bad person, but when i asked her why she spilled out he was spending too much time with his child and being too amicable with his ex??!!!. when i asked if anything intimate had happened she told me no, this was confirmed by the ex and bf. i took on board what they had said but my other friends told me not to worry and if i was happy then to continue with bf.
next few weeks have gone by without a problem but this last week i have found out they have become v nasty and personal behind my back, talking about things i have told one of them in confidence. i think it comes down to the bf and i had always said if it became a choice between them, then the friends would come first but now i know what they have been saying and talking about behind my back instead of talking to my face what do i do... i am extremely upset!
do i have it out with them?

ignore them?

i dont know if i could ever trust them again!

[thebam]

Have you tried sitting them down, perhaps one by one and really expressing this feeling to them?
Sounds to me like some kind of jelousy, maybe your happiness upsets them, this i have seen before.True friends will stand at your side no matter what you do in life.I would confront them alone one at a time with this and then if they choose to go behind your back, cut contact and let them come to you when they realise their loss ;o) good luck

[Trialbyfire]

when i asked if anything intimate had happened she told me no, this was confirmed by the ex and bf.

I can't see any reason why your best friend would turn on you, unless when you confirmed the information with the ex and bf, you made reference to her and she got crapped on. Beyond that, it makes no sense at all.

[Liquinn]

Someone I know turned on me, me and her had a breif argument via AIM, which totaly sucks, she said she hates me, she's blocked, I'm very friendly with another girl I know though.

I guess talking about it over the phone, MSN/AIM, and face-to face are different concepts.