[fractaL]

I'm new here, so hello everyone. Over the years I've botched up more than a few possible relationships, and this weekend I met a girl that I want to get it right with. I'm currently at school (with only 3 weeks till I go home), and met a girl at a party who lives close to me at home. We were talking, and I invited her to come downtown with us to the bars from the party. She was going to come, but her sister told her not to, so she stayed. We exchanged numbers, were texting each other yesterday and are now friends on "facebook" (which states she is single). Here's the catch, though: She doesn't go to school here, she went back home, and one of my friends at the party is probably going to try to call her too (he lives close by as well, but he goes to school here like me), and I usually lose in these vs. situations, even though I am taller better looking etc.

So it shouldn't be too hard, I am pretty sure she is interested in me, and normally I would wait a while to call her so as to not seem desperate, but I don't want to wait too long and have this other guy start making moves. Any type of help or comments would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

[tomwiz]

Its a good start that she gave you her number and taht she is single. However I really doubt she's going to make her decision based upon height or even really who is better looking. Ask yourself, why do you usually lose in these situations...is it because you rely on your physical appearances, the other guys have something that you dont evidentally. Thankfully its alot easier to change things about you than appearances. If you have a friendly sort of texting banter going on, why not just call her ask her to dinner or drinks or seomthing. Move in before the other dude

[fractaL]

Now she sent me a text out of nowhere saying "I should prob tell you that I'm kinda seeing someone". I said I thought you were single (probably a dumb move), and she said "i am...thats why i said kinda. its complicated so idk if its gona go anywhere" so i said that come summertime she should tell him she wants to see other people, and she said "the whole reason she's sticking around now is b/c she likes him so we'll see"

btw its not the guy in the original post its someone from her hometown