[GimpKid7590]

Alright I like this girl right. There are 2 pple that like her, one involving me. Now my friends keep saying there is a 3rd person and he is in my group of friends. So i said names and they said one of them was it. There were only 2 main pple I could suspect. So I tried to see if it was them but they told me no. So I tried even harder to find out. But they wont tell me. It could b 1 of the 2 or a lie. Im only preocupied with finding out cuz they say this guy has a better chance than me and its too late. So I want to find out who so atleast I know what Im up against. Theyve done things like this 2 me before, but on the flipside they also do tell me who it is. I feel extremely depressed and the fact that 1 of them is my "friends" and thier hiding it from me is ****ed up. so i need a way to find out who it is or just advice on this in general. SO PLEASE HELP!

PS. Theres an event next week and I need to know which one it is so I can watch out and see

[Ronni_W]

For me, you have the power to choose to do one of two things:
[1] Decide to waste your time & energy on finding out who your competition is. (Which, after you know, it still doesn't make a real difference that I can see.)
[2] Choose to spend your time & energy more productively, thinking of ways to "win the girl", as it were. What are your good qualities that you want to show her? What's the best way for you to show her that any other choice (no matter who that may be) will not measure up to you, in the long run?
Note: You can only show her by your words and actions. You can't "make her" see it. You just gotta work on YOU doing a good enough job of representing all your good stuff in ways that she absolutely, positively cannot miss .

I don't know for sure, but it's possible that your friends are just having some fun at your expense -- it sounds like maybe you make it too easy for them to mess with your head (getting all wired over something that is causing you to waste your own time & energy, kind of thing.)