He called me this morning in a rage shouting, "I logged on to your myspace account last night. I see you've been talking to Travis. Why?! I should go talk to all of my ex-girlfriends now. And you put more pictures up of when you and your cousin Ashley went to the beach than when you and I went to the beach. Wtf is up with that?!"
First of all- Travis is not my ex-boyfriend. He was a very good friend of mine for years before I even met my boyfriend. I went through a rough break-up over two years ago, made a big mistake and hooked up with Travis once (not even sex- just making out and he felt me up). I wasn't thinking clearly at the time and admit it was a mistake because I never wanted to be more than friends with the guy in the first place. It pretty much ruined our friendship. Recently, I ran into him at a movie theater (he works there) and I striked up a friendly conversation with him asking about how he's been. A few days later, I sent him a message on myspace. Our conversation (read from the bottom up):
" I'm transferring to the Starbucks in ________, it's near the _______. What are you taking in school? Everything's been pretty good with me, and yes, Beau and I are still together
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From:
Travis
Date: Apr 8, 2008 12:32 PM
thats good, where are you transferring to? as for me, well ive been really busy with school, work, and shooting. so i havent had too much time to relax, so hows everything else, you still with your boyfriend?
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From:
Me
Date: Apr 7, 2008 6:39 PM
Oh, okay.
I've been doing alright, just getting started with school and transferring to a different location to work. How about you?
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From:
Travis
Date: Apr 6, 2008 11:49 AM
theres no reason, i just havent been on myspace for a while. how are you doing?
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From:
Me
Date: Apr 5, 2008 1:27 PM
Just out of curiosity, why did you decide not accept my friend request?"
Does that sound like ANYTHING he should be worried about? He's making it sound like i'm going to jump in the sack with this guy and try to "spark an old flame". I tell him we're not going to make it if he doesn't trust me. He's admitted that he's terrified of me leaving him for another guy because "i'm so beautiful" and "a lot of guys want me". I remind him all the time that I only want him, only want to be with him, only want to do things with him, etc, but it seems like it has yet to settle in. What can or should I do about this?
Now, the second part of what he told me on the phone: "And you put more pictures up of when you and your cousin Ashley went to the beach than when you and I went to the beach. Wtf is up with that?!" I feel like a 5 year old would say this. I was in shock.
Advice?
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