Why do you want to be with someone who won't or can't afford to be divorced?
Rain
I realize that you are an intelligent human being, and as such do you not have something better to do with your time than to harass those of us with "little or no morals?" Really, think about it. Don't you feel that you are wasting your time on those people who aren't worth saving, according to you? I have gotten some real responses from you, however those are far and few between. Stop "lowering yourself to our level," and do something better with your time.
TogetherForever, I read your previous threads/posts ~ are you actually happy with your current situation?
I can't believe you actually stayed for so long. Take advice from people like Nadia, LB or those who don't condone cheating. You can find alot of them here and you'd probably thank them all later.
Seriously, save yourself!
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Hi TF, welcome back! I'm not sure how long you've been gone, but it's been pretty busy here at The Shack! Some have gone NC with their MM's, others have gotten pregnant by them, some MM's have divorced their W's and are now back on our doorsteps, and some are still just chugging along in the same boat. We've even met a few OM's! Myself, I'm chewing my arm off NOT getting involved with my MM. And taking it one day at a time. "Today, I will stay away from him. Tomorrow, I have no idea."
May I ask, was your post simply a friendly hello or was there another purpose for it? How do you feel about your MM not getting D yet? How are YOU doing?
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Hi TF, welcome back! I'm not sure how long you've been gone, but it's been pretty busy here at The Shack! Some have gone NC with their MM's, others have gotten pregnant by them, some MM's have divorced their W's and are now back on our doorsteps, and some are still just chugging along in the same boat. We've even met a few OM's! Myself, I'm chewing my arm off NOT getting involved with my MM. And taking it one day at a time. "Today, I will stay away from him. Tomorrow, I have no idea."
May I ask, was your post simply a friendly hello or was there another purpose for it? How do you feel about your MM not getting D yet? How are YOU doing?
TogetherForever, I read your previous threads/posts ~ are you actually happy with your current situation?
I can't believe you actually stayed for so long. Take advice from people like Nadia, LB or those who don't condone cheating. You can find alot of them here and you'd probably thank them all later.
Seriously, save yourself!
Hello Leia,
I don't need to save myself.
I am happy with my s/o & have been for quite some time now.
Yes I stayed in the relationship & I am glad I did.
Hello Leia,
I don't need to save myself.
I am happy with my s/o & have been for quite some time now.
Yes I stayed in the relationship & I am glad I did.
And, I don't condone cheating either.
TF
I find that interesting, why don't you condone cheating?
TF, I don't recall your situation. Were they seperated pending a divorce, or seperated and had agreed to seeing other people during the seperation? If so, I'd agree...not cheating.
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TF, I don't recall your situation. Were they seperated pending a divorce, or seperated and had agreed to seeing other people during the seperation? If so, I'd agree...not cheating.
Hi Owl,
They seperated, she started dating, he & I started seeing each other & now it's history.
Aug. will be 8 years that we are together. She dates, nothing serious.
So no, I don't consider any of this cheating.
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