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Old 23rd January 2008, 10:21 AM   #1
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bisexuals "unknowingly" befriending each other?

Hey, just wondering if any other bisexuals here had a group where more than one of you was bi/gay/les...(and you didn't truely know). I just recently came out to my group of 7 other "close" friends, and in turn, 3 of them came out to me as bi. So half of my group is bi. Coincidence or "unconscious gaydar"? I find it quite funny.
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Old 23rd January 2008, 10:37 AM   #2
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Its hard to say if it is some sort of "gaydar". I look at my friends and most are straight males and females, bi females, and gay men. I seem to have little luck making friends with gay females. I get the sense that they feel, because I am a bi female, I am interested in their friendship with less sincere motives. It frustrates the hell out of me too! I like guys too; I don't sleep with every guy I make friends with. Why then the assumption that I must be befriending them to try to sleep with them?
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Old 24th January 2008, 12:06 AM   #3
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I bet that if anyone were to truly know the sexual orientations of their friends they would find the same statistic. You just happen to have friends that don't beat you up for telling the truth.
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Old 24th January 2008, 2:12 AM   #4
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I bet that if anyone were to truly know the sexual orientations of their friends they would find the same statistic. You just happen to have friends that don't beat you up for telling the truth.
If they were girls then yeah maybe, but not among men. Men are just uglier. Women only like them for the penetration
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Old 24th January 2008, 4:18 AM   #5
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There are hot men. The only reason that my friends don't know that I'm bi is because I don't want any of them hitting on me. I'm super picky when it comes to guys.
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Old 24th January 2008, 6:16 AM   #6
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There are hot men. The only reason that my friends don't know that I'm bi is because I don't want any of them hitting on me. I'm super picky when it comes to guys.
As good and satisfying as the one love that you have real soul connection?
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Old 25th January 2008, 12:35 AM   #7
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Spoken like a true sapiosexual.
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Old 26th January 2008, 5:48 PM   #8
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There are hot men. The only reason that my friends don't know that I'm bi is because I don't want any of them hitting on me. I'm super picky when it comes to guys.
who are some male celebrities you find attractive?
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Old 28th January 2008, 3:50 AM   #9
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Cilliam Murphy is the ultimate hot guy for me. Hayden Christiansen who is bi. Jake Gyllenhaal. Jared Leto. Even Macaulay Culkin. Terrible actor, but I don't mind, he's so cute. Pretty boys I guess you could say.
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Old 28th January 2008, 11:56 AM   #10
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Cilliam Murphy is the ultimate hot guy for me. Hayden Christiansen who is bi. Jake Gyllenhaal. Jared Leto. Even Macaulay Culkin. Terrible actor, but I don't mind, he's so cute. Pretty boys I guess you could say.
You're a sucker for blue eyes I see... A lot of those guys are rather effeminate looking, especially Cillian Murphy. I guess that makes sense given that you're bi. Do you tend to be attracted to more androgynous women as well?

Where did you hear Hayden was bi?

My favorite male actor is Christian Bale...

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Old 29th January 2008, 7:05 AM   #11
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That Hayden thing is just an internet rumor. Everyone is a little bi to me though. I guess you could say these are effeminate men. And as far as androgynous women, sure. But I like girly looking women as well. My wife looks like Avril Levine, though more conservative!

Blue eyes and black hair are definately my thing, men and women.
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Old 29th January 2008, 10:13 AM   #12
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That Hayden thing is just an internet rumor. Everyone is a little bi to me though. I guess you could say these are effeminate men. And as far as androgynous women, sure. But I like girly looking women as well. My wife looks like Avril Levine, though more conservative!

Blue eyes and black hair are definately my thing, men and women.
Same............
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Old 30th January 2008, 2:35 AM   #13
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Is that your pic? If so, I would say that you are a bit androgynous, and I think I would be very attracted to you.

When I comes to women, I am as far from sapiosexual as you can get. It doesn't matter if you look like a stereotypical boy or girl (all genitals are attractive to me), just that you are fit and semetrical (the classic standard of beauty). And as a 21st century man, lean is in.
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Old 30th January 2008, 9:01 AM   #14
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Is that your pic? If so, I would say that you are a bit androgynous, and I think I would be very attracted to you.

When I comes to women, I am as far from sapiosexual as you can get. It doesn't matter if you look like a stereotypical boy or girl (all genitals are attractive to me), just that you are fit and semetrical (the classic standard of beauty). And as a 21st century man, lean is in.
Haha, no. I'm a girl. The guy in the pic is Julian Casablancas, the lead singer of The Strokes, whom I find pretty attractive.
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Old 31st January 2008, 2:04 AM   #15
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Oh, Ok. I recognize him now. He's still a pretty girl.
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