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Old 14th January 2008, 11:50 AM   #1
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Not like I want to rehash why my x of 8 years doesn't find me "sexually attractive" (tried 2 of my friend previously & I tossed him Out)...

BUT!!!!

He moved into this house, with just guys that a woman rents rooms to...well, his one friend just got arrested....after the both of them lost their jobs....friend had an active warrant but went on a crack binge & cracked?...picked up & in jail now...

Next, this old, 62 year old man that rents another of the rooms took my x/? & I out to dinner on Fri night & paid...all $210 of it...then, for some weird reason, took us both out yesterday...& paid all the tabs....now, to the best of my knowledge, he's been in that house since April...made mention of a gay brother in law...and basically tried to tell me something about my x last night in a drunk stupor when I dropped them both off....like my x pulled his private part out on this man....

My x has lived there since end of Oct....and this type of behavior was told to me earlier in the year by one of my gay friends who use to party with x...

I just texted my x & told him we need to talk, tonight. He did call me this morning to tell me that the 62 year old was getting evicted from the house...I"m starting to wonder why...all this drama...all of a sudden, i.e. his "buddy" from rehab went on a 4 day crack binge & got arrested...this old man seems to be going back to being an alcoholic....and my x ? The old man seems way too generous all of a sudden.

ANy thoughts on this or need more detail? Should I just call him on this? I don't know how to handle this.
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Old 15th January 2008, 1:27 AM   #2
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Wait a sec... Wasnt you on here a while ago confused about this drug addicted x boyfriend who was a loser???
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Old 15th January 2008, 2:43 AM   #3
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It sounds like you live in a scuzzy world, but you are from Florida after all
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Old 15th January 2008, 12:14 PM   #4
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Wait a sec... Wasnt you on here a while ago confused about this drug addicted x boyfriend who was a loser???
Yes. He moved out & things have been hard but no drama.....
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Old 15th January 2008, 12:16 PM   #5
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It sounds like you live in a scuzzy world, but you are from Florida after all

Born & raised in Detroit...just happened to live in FL since the 90's....the land where it snows year round...lol
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Old 15th January 2008, 3:24 PM   #6
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Yes. He moved out & things have been hard but no drama.....

Good, he moved out, and you know what, it should not be your concern once your mind let's this go, the better off you will be.

Why are you so concerned with your well being he doesnt care about you.
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Old 15th January 2008, 4:55 PM   #7
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Good, he moved out, and you know what, it should not be your concern once your mind let's this go, the better off you will be.

Why are you so concerned with your well being he doesnt care about you.
Thanx! I've pretty much let it go & actually went out Sun. night & kissed someone else...it was amazing! Even if I don't hear from the guy I made out with (went no further than kissing & a little dancing), it refreshed my memory of how things are supposed to be! Gave him my phone # on a lotto ticket & told him he might be a winner!
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