What is up with the transsexual thing? What is going on inside my head? Can someone help me out here? I find them incredibly erotic but i'm not homosexual. I'ts like someone stuck a spoon in my head and stirred. I like beautiful faces, breasts, lingerie, long hair and the penis is a symbol of power. Is that what is attracting me? Need some input here. By the way i've stopped the porn thing so please no advice on that front, thanks.
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I did see one transexual that if I didnt know any better looked like a woman. I mean she was gorgeous and when maury said, you were born a dude. I was like WTF????
Crazy!
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I did see one transexual that if I didnt know any better looked like a woman. I mean she was gorgeous and when maury said, you were born a dude. I was like WTF????
Crazy!
That's the thing, i have no interest in men but these people look like women only they have a penis. I want to know the psychology behind my attraction to beautiful "women" with a penis.
That's the thing, i have no interest in men but these people look like women only they have a penis. I want to know the psychology behind my attraction to beautiful "women" with a penis.
See that's the thing when I was like transexual I was like I aint thinking about the jimmy. I was like it must be anal sex? lol.
But then again if your focused on the penis, you must like it. Maybe your just curious to see what it's all about.
I think it happens to the best of us.
IDK, but hey you havent slept with a transexual so your ok for now. lol.
See that's the thing when I was like transexual I was like I aint thinking about the jimmy. I was like it must be anal sex? lol.
But then again if your focused on the penis, you must like it. Maybe your just curious to see what it's all about.
I think it happens to the best of us.
IDK, but hey you havent slept with a transexual so your ok for now. lol.
This is true and i won't be either but i am concerned what is so appealing. I like women my friend. In fact i would prefer a nymphomaniac from hell i think but i have a marriage and little girl to save.
Hi Chrome,
My ex bf was into this too. He loved tranny porn and I'm not 100% sure that he had actually slept with one, but that's neither here nor there. In fact, he finally came out as bi to me about 6 months into the relationship. I lost it for a while because I was so upset that he didn't have the courage to tell me this when we first started dating. In your case, I don't think that you should feel ashamed to have fantasies about ANYTHING. If you find them attractive, that's your thing. Labels are restrictive. Does it make you gay? Bi? Bi-curious? Who cares! As long as your fantasies stay just that.. fantasies... I don't think you have anything to worry your head over. Shucks, if I wanted to do everything I fantasized or dreamed about, I'd be one promiscuous woman!!! Most people imagine or fantasize about others- man, woman, whatever- and that is just who we are as people. Once you feel that your fantasy wants to actually take shape, then you may have a bigger issue to deal with. Let's just stick with the circumstances at hand and just enjoy it and fantasize away, my friend.
Depending on how open your wife is, maybe one day down the road after some serious easing into the subject, perhaps you can have her wear a strap on. If it is the woman and the penis that you are attracted to, this may just be your answer...
Namaste,
Jess
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Hi Chrome,
My ex bf was into this too. He loved tranny porn and I'm not 100% sure that he had actually slept with one, but that's neither here nor there. In fact, he finally came out as bi to me about 6 months into the relationship. I lost it for a while because I was so upset that he didn't have the courage to tell me this when we first started dating. In your case, I don't think that you should feel ashamed to have fantasies about ANYTHING. If you find them attractive, that's your thing. Labels are restrictive. Does it make you gay? Bi? Bi-curious? Who cares! As long as your fantasies stay just that.. fantasies... I don't think you have anything to worry your head over. Shucks, if I wanted to do everything I fantasized or dreamed about, I'd be one promiscuous woman!!! Most people imagine or fantasize about others- man, woman, whatever- and that is just who we are as people. Once you feel that your fantasy wants to actually take shape, then you may have a bigger issue to deal with. Let's just stick with the circumstances at hand and just enjoy it and fantasize away, my friend.
Depending on how open your wife is, maybe one day down the road after some serious easing into the subject, perhaps you can have her wear a strap on. If it is the woman and the penis that you are attracted to, this may just be your answer...
Namaste,
Jess
What happened with the ex? Were you mad about rhe bi-sexual thing.
What is up with the transsexual thing? What is going on inside my head? Can someone help me out here? I find them incredibly erotic but i'm not homosexual. I'ts like someone stuck a spoon in my head and stirred. I like beautiful faces, breasts, lingerie, long hair and the penis is a symbol of power. Is that what is attracting me? Need some input here. By the way i've stopped the porn thing so please no advice on that front, thanks.
could it possible the images in porn still working in your mind? like you sow some weed in your mind, and now they grow wildly
I think something unknow is attracting you, and you feel unsettled by the unknown; could it possible you feel boredom, and try to resolve it by sexual activity? but sexual activities and transsexual thing will never satisfy you unknown craving in your heart, on the contrary as long as you make them in reality they will dig more deep hole in your heart. but how many people really can find that unknown craving? it is more of soul than physical or superficial things outside of us.
how you shape your life or even sexual life depends on how much energy you allocate them. If you use most of your energy to think about transexual, then you definitely attracted to those things and in reality you act on them. If you use most your energy to develop spiritual things, you are going to build up your characters, and attracted to people because of their souls and hearts
so it depends on how YOU want your life to become, and every thing starts from your mind and heart. If you follow every whim in mind, life would become unimaginable, especially the sexual thing belongs to our lower instinct if without love, we have much higher ability and much potiencial to develop, and most of people waste them
just another thought
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Well, first of all, you're being honest with yourself about what you're feeling, which is GOOD. That means this stuff probably won't sneak up on you in unexpected ways. Next step is to explore it in a healthy manner, see where it leads. You're probably going to be learning a lot about yourself soon... keep us posted.
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Well, first of all, you're being honest with yourself about what you're feeling, which is GOOD. That means this stuff probably won't sneak up on you in unexpected ways. Next step is to explore it in a healthy manner, see where it leads. You're probably going to be learning a lot about yourself soon... keep us posted.
I don't think this really needs to be explored. This isn't something people struggle with their whole lives with like gay people, this is something artificially created which makes it a fetish and no-one needs to explore fetishes
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This is true and i won't be either but i am concerned what is so appealing. I like women my friend. In fact i would prefer a nymphomaniac from hell i think but i have a marriage and little girl to save.
Most people imagine or fantasize about others- man, woman, whatever- and that is just who we are as people. Once you feel that your fantasy wants to actually take shape, then you may have a bigger issue to deal with. Let's just stick with the circumstances at hand and just enjoy it and fantasize away, my friend. 
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