This is something that I have talked about with some of my friends. I love looking at people. I can sit for hours with a cup of coffee at a cafe and watch people walk by. I love looking at good looking women, especially. Women are more attractive to me than men are... does that make me a lesbian? No, I don't think so. I just appreciate their beauty more than I do of men.
Do I have sexual fantasies of those women? Not really. Ok... I lied. I do have sexual fantasies of those women (maybe one or two of those who walked past by me) but nothing too serious. Just some french-kissing or you know. *Will I get infractions for saying too much?!?*
Anyway, lately... I tend to feel excited when I see an attractive woman smile or wave at me. Yes, people are friendly over here. My cousins and I went out yesterday, and two girls (not at the same time) asked for my digits. Since I will be leaving for home in 2 weeks, I told them that and gave my email instead. One said she has to have my digits. I figured she must have just liked my sense of fashion since she can't stop asking me about my clothes... but after that, she gave me a peck on my cheeks and whispered "I'd like to get to know more of you".....
That got me excited... very...
So has anyone of you Loveshackers, female of course... well, you male out there can chime in too... ever felt curious of the same gender... gone through a phase of wanting to be with a woman?
Women are just more exciting to look at - The curves, the way the hair bounces, booby bounces, legs, skin soft and smooth..I think many women are bi-curious but most would never have sex with another woman. It's normal to be curious though! I am, though it wouldn't happen for one reason, I'm married. But, if I was single, I would want to experiment just to see what it would be like.
Those who have experimented say that it's very hot! I hope some of the LS members lady members share their experiences...Though, if they do, it should be posted in the other section as anyone can read this section and the other sex section, you need to be a member to view.
I'm a guy, but I have to admit with all this talk I hear Offline and online about girl on girl, I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the same gender. I do know I am not bisexual, but I have "tried" to feel what it would be like to be with a man in my imagination. It didn't do anything for me, not even a bit, but the thought of two girls on each other... WOW!..
I'm a guy, but I have to admit with all this talk I hear Offline and online about girl on girl, I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the same gender. I do know I am not bisexual, but I have "tried" to feel what it would be like to be with a man in my imagination. It didn't do anything for me, not even a bit, but the thought of two girls on each other... WOW!..
Props to you for admitting that, most guys won't.
I'm not sure how I feel about terms like bi-curious, but I've been with women though I consider myself straight. I know some people have a hard time grasping that idea and that's ok.
I have no problem being with a woman sexually (obviously) but emotionally and romantically I've never felt lust for females like I do for men.
I'm not sure how I feel about terms like bi-curious, but I've been with women though I consider myself straight. I know some people have a hard time grasping that idea and that's ok.
I have no problem being with a woman sexually (obviously) but emotionally and romantically I've never felt lust for females like I do for men.
I've talked about that before. You can do things for experiential reasons and it has nothing to do with your nature. Still, most guys think of such things with the same gnder as being a dishonor and I'm on the fence on whether I think its dishonorable or commendable
I've talked about that before. You can do things for experiential reasons and it has nothing to do with your nature. Still, most guys think of such things with the same gnder as being a dishonor and I'm on the fence on whether I think its dishonorable or commendable
I don't remember you admitting it, I apologize, I only remember us agreeing about something about transexuals and I'm not sure if you were serious. I agree with you on the experimental reasoning but I'm not sure why you'd be on the fence about it
When I was in my early 20's I was curious about everything. I dont consider myself bisexual, because at 30, I clearly prefer men although i still fantasize about women sometimes. But yes...i went through with it and it was a great couple of experiences. A few times with a woman and man, and a few full blown nights of girl on girl action. i think it's very natural and normal to feel as you do. i say...if you're open to it, try it out. Have fun!
Aww I'm not a member! I'm trying this forum out to see if I can help, and be helped, and this is really a great place so far!!
I've wondered about this topic for almost 6 years now. I have had fantasies about being with other women. I'm so glad that I'm not the only one.
I'm in a healthy relationship with my husband whom I'm just crazy for and totally in love with. Some time a few years ago, I began having fantasies about making love with another woman. I had my chance in college with a bisexual student dating a guy friend of mine. She shacked up in my dorm room since she couldn't stay in the guys hall, and he chose me for her to stay with. I was gracious, took my mattress off and put it on the floor and gave her fresh sheets and pillows. Then I slept on the box spring with blankets for the night. I didn't mind, but aparently she had never seen such hosting before and quickly crawled in bed with me while I slept. Her hands went everywhere and when I awoke, I was frightened. I didn't have the urge to explore in college, and this experience scared me.
I never really spoke to her again, as I felt violated. At the time, I pretended to still be sleeping and eventually balled up in the fetal position to sleep, she went back to the floor. She was very beautiful, I remember, with kind eyes and bright smile. I felt shame for years about it.
Now I've been trying to figure out why I fantasize about doing all sorts of crazy things to these gentle women I choose for my fantasy. I think its about control and dominance. What I can say about myself is, I have trouble meeting new friends that are girls. I'm not a tomboy, but men friends are always easier for me to find than girls. I try to make girl friends but it never happens for long. So in these fantasies, I'm basically the controlling character and they submit to my whim. But here's the strange part, I never take off my clothes, and I am the one giving them all of the action.!?! I feel in the fantasies that I own them, like a queen to her harem of all women. It is so strange, but when I think about having free reign over their bodies, I get so freakin bothered I have to excuse myself.
This has gone on for almost 6 years on and off. My husband knows all about it, and he said if I wanted to have an affair, he'd be ok with it. Its cheating, and I don't think I could ever do that, so I try to exercise this part by burying it deep. I'm 32, without children, and love my husband. What do you guys think of all this? Am I nuts??? This all was a shocker to me that I just became ok with after my husband told me I wasn't an evil woman.
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This has gone on for almost 6 years on and off. My husband knows all about it, and he said if I wanted to have an affair, he'd be ok with it. Its cheating, and I don't think I could ever do that, so I try to exercise this part by burying it deep. I'm 32, without children, and love my husband. What do you guys think of all this? Am I nuts??? This all was a shocker to me that I just became ok with after my husband told me I wasn't an evil woman.
You know, it's only cheating if your husband conciders it cheating. It doesn't matter what you think of it.
Just like the rest of these ladies and porn. If they concider their husbands watching porn as cheating, then it is. The definition of cheating is going behind your partners back to do something, anything.
Aside from all of this, you are so normal and not crazy. I have heard this story so many times that it's actually boring (not that your here to entertain me or anything).
It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll, if you know what I'm sayin'.
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You know, it's only cheating if your husband conciders it cheating. It doesn't matter what you think of it.
Just like the rest of these ladies and porn. If they concider their husbands watching porn as cheating, then it is. The definition of cheating is going behind your partners back to do something, anything.
Aside from all of this, you are so normal and not crazy. I have heard this story so many times that it's actually boring (not that your here to entertain me or anything).
It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll, if you know what I'm sayin'.
Thanks for the welcome I am actually surprised that this is normal. I had expected just to hit my 30 something and find that peak I hear about, and just give ol' hubby a ride of his life. But something else happened, I found the same sex appealing, and I guess it surprised me a bit. Thanks for the clarification. In speaking more about it with my husband, he said he'd want to watch or of course get in on the action, to which I had to say no. So we ended that fantasy of coming a reality right there. My fantasy didn't include him, unfortunately. So bringing it outside of my comfort zone kinda killed it for now. Its still a great fantasy, one I might put into one of my many novellas
I had to laugh at this, I'm sorry.
Sometimes I think I was really born on another planet.
If the thought excites you. And the thought excites him. I just don't understand how you could just ignore it. But that's just me and I'm obviously not the norm.
I had to laugh at this, I'm sorry.
Sometimes I think I was really born on another planet.
If the thought excites you. And the thought excites him. I just don't understand how you could just ignore it. But that's just me and I'm obviously not the norm.
It excites me to be w/a woman w/out him. He wants the ol' 3-some. I'm not ok with that. And honestly, I tried making eye contact with woman all afternoon at the mall. I have no idea how to flirt with a girl, let alone find one that's not all straight. This is hard for me, and I'm one of those "if it doesn't come easy or naturally, its not meant to be " for now anyways LOL.
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I am actually surprised that this is normal. I had expected just to hit my 30 something and find that peak I hear about, and just give ol' hubby a ride of his life. But something else happened, I found the same sex appealing, and I guess it surprised me a bit. Thanks for the clarification. In speaking more about it with my husband, he said he'd want to watch or of course get in on the action, to which I had to say no. So we ended that fantasy of coming a reality right there. My fantasy didn't include him, unfortunately. So bringing it outside of my comfort zone kinda killed it for now. Its still a great fantasy, one I might put into one of my many novellas 
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