My boyfriend is very very freaky in bed, but its one thing that he likes me to do to him that kind of make me think he's gay.. He likes for me to finger him in his anal he says he's not gay he just like the way it feels.. I'm
not gone lie it do turn me on to hear him moan.. but is this normal for
a man to like this??????? please advices
If I didn't know his previous history from your other threads, then I would say it is innocent "fun." But since he likes tranny porn and more, then maybe he is.
I think you also posted before that you tried to get him to admit that he is gay, but he hasn't done so.
The question becomes....can you accept him as he is, or do you feel uncomfortable knowing he may be gay/bi? And the biggest question is....it doesn't matter as much as to what sexual orientation he is....what matters is will he be faithful to YOU?
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Just because he likes a little prostate stimulation does NOT make him a homosexual. Nor does it mean that he couldn't be...
Many (<gasp!> dare I say it?) maybe even most men, secretly desire some anal stim from time to time...it's just a rare guy who is able to admit it, I have found...
Now, if you have other reasons to question his orientation, then, so be it.
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My boyfriend is very very freaky in bed, but its one thing that he likes me to do to him that kind of make me think he's gay.. He likes for me to finger him in his anal he says he's not gay he just like the way it feels.. I'm
not gone lie it do turn me on to hear him moan.. but is this normal for
a man to like this??????? please advices
LOL... That's whats up... I'm pretty good my damn self , I dont see nothing wrong with as long as he not gay... If he likes it's I LOVE it.. but only if he's not gay...
There are plenty of straight men that like anal stimulation, and plenty of gay men that don't. In other words, the fact that he likes anal stimulation proves nothing one way or the other.
My husband also enjoys it, and I can tell you he's not a homophobe, but he's not gay either. It took him years to open up to tell me he does it to himself during master*ation, and asked for some help. Its his G spot I swear, and I was comfortable about it. It was something he discovered he liked and I don't even see it as kinky. Now if he desired men, and told me so, then I'd worry. But as far as I can tell, its stimulation and very powerful when he climaxes. I can see that.
I think you have a sexually comfortable man in your midst whos not afraid to try things, and that's outstanding As long as he doesn't ask you to dress as a man and wear a strap on, I think that would point to bisexuality.
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I dated a guy for 1.5 years who LOVED that done to him, and believe me, the last thing he was was gay. I think it's just a matter of taste, some guys like it, are comfortable enough with themselves and their own identity to admit it, and some guys just won't go there.
I think you have a sexually comfortable man in your midst whos not afraid to try things, and that's outstanding As long as he doesn't ask you to dress as a man and wear a strap on, I think that would point to bisexuality.
I am not so sure even that is homosexual--adventurous yes, PERHAPS homosexual but I would not say it is an indicator or reason to be afraid.
I think you have a sexually comfortable man in your midst whos not afraid to try things, and that's outstanding As long as he doesn't ask you to dress as a man and wear a strap on, I think that would point to bisexuality.
I am not so sure even that is homosexual--adventurous yes, PERHAPS homosexual but I would not say it is an indicator or reason to be afraid.
I guess what people are saying is its gay if he wants men sticking things in his bum... but if he enjoys a woman sticking things in there its not gay... No what would be freaky... if you gave him a BJ while he took a crap... they call that a blumkin or something like that
Wanting anal stimulation, totally not gay!
But then again, what is gay?
I am sexually attracted to penis, but I have zero desire to kiss men. Am I actually bisexual, or do I just like penis? Does being bisexual mean that I have to have the ability to love men?
Depends on your definition of what a man is, as far as, should a man like anything.
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, I dont see nothing wrong with as long as he not gay... If he likes it's I LOVE it.. but only if he's not gay...
As long as he doesn't ask you to dress as a man and wear a strap on, I think that would point to bisexuality. 
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