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Old 22nd March 2001, 7:57 PM   #1
jennie
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my daughter is moving back home!

my 19 year old daughter and my 5 month old grandson are moving back home as they had to move out of where they were staying for various reasons.

my daughter and my boyfriend get along great and we operate as a family, she calls him daddy, he refers to her son as his grandson, etc.

the problem is that he likes quietness in the morning. this was a big problem for us before she moved out and had almost caused us to split up.

the baby cries in the morning like babies do and the t.v. is on, and baby things are in the living room.

he was always in a bad mood before she moved out and he never told me why, but the above reasons are why.

i never thought anything of it cause i raised three kids myself, he has none. i never think anything of the t.v. on in the morning or baby toys around the living room.

he never complained outwardly about this cause he just knows that that is how it is and she is my daughter and he did not want to cause problems.

well now she is moving back in on monday and all ready i am worried about how this may affect us again.

i am going to tell her to keep all baby things out of the living room, but i can't him crying and he is teething so that don't help either.

i'm worried that we will start fighting again just after we have finally started connecting again and getting along so very well.

any suggestions? i don't know how long she will be here, she don't want to move in and was not going to move in either, but circumstances beyond her control made her have to move back home.

i don't mind at all tho, i love so much to have my daughter and grandson at home, i love them both dearly and enjoy anytime i have with them.

however i don't want to feel like i have to choose between him and her, but i feel it heading that way again, as we have already aruged about the living room being so small, and he said how the house seems to keep getting smaller and smaller.

what can i do? help! and thanx
 
 

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