I've posted one message already, entailing how I am going out to get to know this girl a little better, we are going out with another couple and a couple mutual friends. What I want to know is if it would be awkward for me to bring her a rose, or should I wait for if we go on a true date? Also, should I pay for her dinner, please keep in mind that its not an official date, but it is acknowledged that we dig each other. Any advice would be appreciated.

[Ed]

Save the flowers for later.

If you invited her to go out to eat with you (even if other people are going), then you better pay for it.

If she is meeting you there then it would be your option.

[Tony T]

Forget the rose, too much too soon! But it would be a very nice gesture to pick up her meal tab.

Stop worrying so much about this and enjoy your evening.

As for when you take her on a real date...don't do the rose thing until you know her just a little bit more. Maybe she likes poison ivy better (LOL). Just don't come off too sweet right off the bat. Very bad move!!!