"Performance" is what my question all boils down too. In bed I mean. I'm only 20, and I know at this age, sex shouldn't be something I should get too worried about, but I'm having problems.

Is there a possibility that someone can become too sensitive? Because that's the way I feel. I'm going to be completely straightforward. In bed, you can call me the Minuteman. It seems that as soon as I get started, it comes to a quick end. Is there a way to overcome this? It's starting to get really frustrating, not to mention embarrasing. And I have yet to find a solution.

To me this is the worst thing in the world not to be able to satisfy a girl with what she wants. And even though a lot of girls have told me that I can satisfy them in different ways, eventually they're going to want to be satisfied by intercourse. You can't tell me differently.

What do I do?

[Tony T]

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"Performance" is what my question

all boils down too. In bed I mean. I'm only 20, and I know at this age, sex shouldn't be something I should get too worried about, but I'm having problems. Is there a possibility that someone can become too sensitive? Because that's the way I feel. I'm going to be completely straightforward. In bed, you can call me the Minuteman. It seems that as soon as I get started, it comes to a quick end. Is there a way to overcome this? It's starting to get really frustrating, not to mention embarrasing. And I have yet to find a solution. To me this is the worst thing in the world not to be able to satisfy a girl with what she wants. And even though a lot of girls have told me that I can satisfy them in different ways, eventually they're going to want to be satisfied by intercourse. You can't tell me differently.

What do I do?

One word, my boy: PRACTICE! Seriously, though, one very practical suggestion I came across recently (no pun intended) said to use Chloraseptic throat spray on your erection (not making this up), because of it's numbing effects on your throat. And, maybe, hers...wink, wink...other than that, masturbation is good for control, perhaps before intercourse (maybe with your partners' assistance?), because the second orgasm is usually quite a bit farther down the road for men...then, of course, you'll be the "twenty minute man". I could see some benefits...

1) Like Fishbulb noted, masturbation (preferably with the help of your woman) before sex will do the trick. But, make note that you may not be able to stay erect after the first blow. Try it, though.

2) Use a condom. Most men blow a lot quicker when having sex without a condom, as the sensation is far greater. I found (I stopped having sex with my girl) that sex with a condom wasn't as good, but I could go a lot longer and make my girl orgasm a few times before I came. That was the best part!

3) Control it. This is hard, but when you feel it building, stop. Rest. Then go again. Chances are, you won't get your girl off with this, especially if your going without a condom.

The best idea here would most likely be a condom, if your not already using one. If you are, masturbate before.