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meeting new people
i am still getting over the breakdown of a relationship with someone who i loved very much.
i want to go out and meet new people so i know that there are other people out there, but i do not want a relationsship with anyone at the moment. i'm simply not ready, and to be quite frank, i am not over my ex.
i am going out with friends after work this friday night, and i want to know how to handle the whole thing. there will be single guys everywhere, but i don't want to feel the pressure of come-on lines etc. i'm very attractive, and i get hit on quite a lot, but i don't want a fling or a relationship. i would just like to meet people and make friends without anyone thinking it might develop into something more.
what do i do if a guy comes up to me and puts the hard word on me? i don't want to look obviously single, as though i want to "pick up" so to speak.
i'm not used to this scene, and any advise would be really helpful.
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