How can I choose between my family and my boyfriend?
I'm 22 years old and yes still live at home with my parents, who for the most part are great, they just drive me crazy, but then again I know its cause of the age gap. But my boyfriend of 2 years has been asking me if I would ever consider living with him and his family until he moves out in a few months, and I told him yes I would love to, but how can I tell my parents that? I mean, I know my boyfriends entire family and we all get along well, it's just that at his house with his family I feel more comfortable and happy than I am with my parents, just cause they let you do what you like and don't pressure you into doing anything. And for that I love them, cause I can just say what I think and they listen. At my home, if I say something, they try to listen but still in the end they believe in their way and are less easy to change their ways. But how can I just tell them I want to leave and live with the man I love with all my heart, who has told me that once we're done with college he would marry me? How do I talk to them without losing them? I don't want to choose one or another but I just know that it will come down to that and I know that I won't like the results! So any advice?
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