got a little problem I can't mend

katherine_lee · 8th January 2007, 8:47 PM

Hiya, my name's Katherine, and I have a little problem I can't mend. I am currently dating this guy but he has a girlfriend back in Hong Kong. I entered into this relationship knowing that he is doing a long-distance relationship thing. At first it was okay, because I thought we were just fooling around but then all of a sudden he told me he loved me, and that he wanted to me to wait for him while he goes back to HK for two weeks in January to visit with his gf in HK.

We been dating for only 2 months, but I have already fallen head over heels for him. I am confused as to what my next move should be, should I wait for him or should I just move on????

whichwayisup · 8th January 2007, 8:51 PM

Move on. I don't know how or why either of you decided to get involved with eachother when he already has a girlfriend.

Does she know about you? If not, this shows what type of guy he is...To allow another relationship to grow on the side.

You deserve better!! Break up with him and tell him to call you when he's a free guy...

kymberann · 8th January 2007, 10:16 PM

Wait a minute....He wants you to wait, while he visits HIS GF? What is wrong with this picture?
Does he have plans to break up? Does he want to commit to you?
Actually it does not matter...Move on..He's taken and it is going to take time for him to change that and get over it.
Maybe down the road, but not now!
Best

Lauriebell82 · 10th January 2007, 7:45 PM

yeah i agree there is def. something wrong with him going home for 2 weeks to visit with his gf. actually there is something wrong with this guy altogether. if he has plans to break up with her, then what happens if u guys do become a serious couple. will he want to find another gf? ths guy is a cheater and u can do better. DUMP HIM FAST

BlueEyedSarah · 10th January 2007, 8:20 PM

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Originally Posted by katherine_lee

he told me he loved me, and that he wanted to me to wait for him while he goes back to HK for two weeks in January to visit with his gf in HK.

This is wrong! Why has he not broke with he's current girlfriend? This guy is a cheater, he is not worth it. Move on!

Lauriebell82 · 10th January 2007, 9:28 PM

Hi this is LaurieBell82's BF.

First of all, "I love you so wait for me" is guy talk for "I want to sleep with you, but I'm not sure when, so just keep your schedule open".

Case Clowwwwsed.